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Anyone else refuse to show interest in a woman out of fear of being seen as a harasser?
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Anonymous 1d

Yes I’m at the point in my life where I just push away people I’m interested cus I fear that’s how they’ll see me

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Anonymous 1d

I can understand the fear of it but as long as you use common sense(and if your unsure Google and friends are always a good source) and understand getting turned down is the end of it, you should be fine. Just don’t be pushy or creepy

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Anonymous 1d

No. As long as you treat them respectfully everything is chill

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Anonymous 1d

Unfortunately I’ll have to start doing it someday if I don’t wanna die alone, but it certainly won’t be until I’ve had a glow up. You know the whole “flirting vs harassment” thing…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Same

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Idk how to get over it And there’s a shot ton of other things affecting it to and I’m trying to just live but can’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Bro I’ve treated them with respect and have still have the fear cus of the stories I know first hand

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Well I have experienced nothing but good from women, and I am not an attractive person. I typically am drawn to women who have similar hobbies to me. Some things go wrong sure but I have only seen one guy I know be accused of harassing someone and that girl is now not in any of our lives

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

My advice is don’t approach a woman just for a romantic relationship. Attraction is only part of it. You have to get to know them first. Then if you ask them out and they say they aren’t interested don’t take it to heart. Everyone has different tastes and it’s okay if you aren’t theirs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’d say have some confidence but too much can become arrogance and that does lead to actually harassing someone. Keep in mind a no is a no and to just keep it pushing when they’ll likely turn you down. Don’t want to be objectifying but it’s really a numbers game

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

not true

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

This is my experience brother. You can have your own perspective but I’m saying how I see it

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