Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
he told me no relationship because he wouldn’t be able to “give me what i deserve”…. what does it really mean?
upvote 6 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

He doesn’t want to commit to you and wants to keep his options open. Sorry :(

upvote 12 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

Either A: he doesn’t believe in himself nor his ability to be a good boyfriend to you, he doesn’t feel good enough deep down, or maybe he feels like he can’t change and he’ll just end up hurting you. Or B: he was letting you off easy and not hurting your feelings - “it’s not you it’s me”

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

He’s just telling you that he can’t give you what you want because it’s something he thinks would lighten the blow but definitely don’t give him your time anymore

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

In my experience guys usually say this when they want to stay single and keep options open

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

he doesn’t feel like he’s in the best place in his life rn. now if that doesn’t matter to you then say it but yeah that’s my interpretation

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

i think it might be option A, he profusely apologized and agreed to stay friends. if that is the case should i try and talk to him and clear up what exactly he mean in hopes that we could rekindle things a little?

upvote 2 downvote