she needs to enthusiastically say "yes" to sex, and it can't be coerced. if i want to touch her on any sensitive spots i ask for permission first. also she can't give consent while under the influence, unless she explicitly gives permission beforehand that its okay while she's under. consent can be taken away at any time (if she says "stop" then just stop). and one-time consent doesnt mean she consents every time (unless explicitly stated)

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A clear enthusiastic sober yes that can be taken back at anytime during the act by anyone involved

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Greatest question

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Depends on the context. I’m in medicine so I know the medical types of consent and how they apply, but I’ve never actually been romantically and physically involved with another human before in my life

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Good method military investigators would use to sort out situations that were questionable: Who took whose clothes off? If both people were drunk… and one was sober enough to take both people home + take off both peoples clothes, and there were no other indications implying consent, that’s a problem. If people both could have gotten home, both took their own clothes off, or remember taking off articles of each others clothing willingly, it’s not complete consent, but those were actions 1/2

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This is an actual conversation

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FRIES freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific. I personally will not engage with someone under the influence to any degree, believe that consent can be revoked at ANY time, will be transparent about all circumstances that may arise during sex (am i expecting a roommate to come home? Are there specific acts i’d like to do?), will only accept a yes or request for sex as consent, and understand that consent can be only for one specific act and does not apply to all acts

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Enthusiastic consent, can be drunk but there shouldn’t be anything that goes unsaid that might change the enthusiastic part if it had been said.

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Im not medium Webster, I don’t define shit

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