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my bf js broke up with me Monday. Did so much things to make me feel loved, after we tried to work out him cheating on me with his ex multiple times. We were good. came out of no where. now he blocked me on everything and re followed her. did he not love
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Anonymous 4w

Unfortunately breakups are rarely mutual, but this should give u the closure you need as he was a cheater and not someone that is good for you

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Anonymous 4w

me*. Found out he cheated in June. broke up in November. he showed me he could and did change. he did everything to make me feel reassured and everything after finding out.

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Anonymous 4w

it just leaves me with more open questions yk, just questioning a lot. what was real. what wasn’t. Why her. was I played the whole time. And why can he not even speak to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

my friends say he knows I’m lurking which is why he followed her back. but what if he never loved me. I just never got the sense he didn’t not love me. No one puts up with constant blaming and overthinking if they didn’t really want to try right? thoughts?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

not back, but followed her. she hasn’t followed him back. He unfollowed then her follows after she posted shady things about him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I js feel so blindsided and broken, I really really loved him. helped him so much. and I felt like he genuinely wanted something with me. we were starting to talk about saving for a place tg, that he wass going to put me thru grad school and everything. I just idk. how do u go from that to blocking me on everything?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It will take time and u will get through it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

sorry thought I replied to u directly left the stream under

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