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hiii so there’s this guy i went on a date with and it went super well and he checks all the boxes in every way but his text response time is ridiculously slow like it’s actually insane and makes me question if he likes me. what does it mean
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Anonymous 3w

It took a lot of concerted effort for me to even be a somewhat decent texter for my bf. I would talk to him about this concern before deciding anything. If he does like you and wants to date you he will make steps to get better but if he doesn’t and that’s a dealbreaker for you then I would say cut it off

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Anonymous 3w

What is ridiculously slow?

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Anonymous 2w

As a guy exactly like this, it’s not a lack of interest, but for me, I just REALLY dislike texting for some reason. Like what #4 is saying, it’s a good idea to talk to him about it since it’s bothering you

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Anonymous 2w

It means he’s not on his phone much

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Anonymous 3w

Some ppl are just bad texters

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