Anonymous oranguru 6d

i mean mid as in bad personality or rude or what

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Anonymous OP 6d

not like looks i don’t care about that stuff

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Anonymous OP 6d

Oh you’re absolutely right then. Never ever date someone that is rude to you or is unable to treat you well. If you do effort into your looks, then it’s also totally reasonable to want someone who does the same. I’m sure there are plenty of attractive (physically and personality wise) men who would be more than willing to date you. But it takes a lot of false starts and rejections sometime

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Anonymous oranguru 6d

yeah i get that my anxiety is always setting me back so im terrified of rejection that’s a big issue for me

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Anonymous OP 6d

I understand that. Just know that people are rejected every day and go on. There is really nothing lost in being rejected — no one will think lsss of you for making an effort to find a partner. In fact, the people that get rejected most often are probably lost likely to end up with a great partner

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Anonymous oranguru 6d

my friends always tell me i just need to talk to the people i have crushes on but i always get nervous and don’t know what to say

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Anonymous OP 6d

Your friends have the right idea. You’d be surprised how many guys are secretly into you - most people don’t approach these days so it’s impossible to accurately judge who likes you

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Anonymous oranguru 6d

eh maybe i will then lol im going to my crushes hockey game this weekend probably so if i see him ill try and start a conversation

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Anonymous oranguru 6d

If nothing else, you can have a great amount of success if you just talk to potential partners like you were trynng to make a platonic friend

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Anonymous OP 6d

That’s a good plan, it’s so much easier to talk to people you already know, but aren’t best friends with

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Anonymous oranguru 6d

yeah i’m going with one of my roommates and a guy friend so maybe i’ll be easier having friends around

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Anonymous #2 6d

Yeah i mean i do think that’s the best route i mean i am friends with guys who i dont date and it works sometimes but its also ended poorly and made me realize they don’t actually care about me and are using me to get me to date them so ill never date someone ive known for a long time it’ll always be within a few months of knowing the person so they dont get obsessed in a bad way

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Anonymous OP 6d

That’s a good way to do it. I’ve been friends with a couple girls since middle school and they’re out of the question when it comes to dating. I’m sorry that happened to you, that must suck.

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Anonymous #2 6d

yeah it was pretty bad we had a falling out last spring break after i found out he got mad i was interested in other guys and went behind my back and called me ran through then he transferred to my school and i see him all the time like and he gives me nasty side eye

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Anonymous #3 6d

what do you mean by that lol

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Anonymous #4 6d

that’s good i just get anxious ill look dumb if they say no

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