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Why are men so lustful nowadays? I want a boyfriend but I constantly get my hopes up this is a real conversation i had with a guy this week. him: “hey your pretty wyd” me: “that’s nice of you nothing much how are you?” him: “cool do you send?”
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Anonymous 1d

Not the ones who are worth it. Online is not typically a good place to meet guys for this reason cuz those types of guys are mostly online cuz they wouldn’t say stuff like that in person

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Anonymous 1d

oh and mind you this is my first fucking impression of you? and this isn’t the first fucking time it’s happened. Like is this all men want nowadays?

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Anonymous 21h

You dont get a second chance to make a first impression. I will say that the guys like these believe that that kind of stuff is all a woman has to offer, which is why he went ahead and asked for it straight away, thats all he was looking for. The problem lies in that so much of what online spaces say, is that theres not many genuine people or interactions anymore and so he probably is just trying to take what he can get.

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Anonymous 1d

That’s some dumb shi

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Anonymous 7h

The Internet and media platforms is full of stuff that promotes that kind of behavior by feeding into lustful cravings and openly advertising it. Pornographic platforms especially ruin the perspective since some will chase the high associated with lustfulness or think that porn is what real life is. The fact that we tend to interact so much online also makes it easier for people to hide behind a screen and openly be vulgar

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

Does that excuse it? Absolutely not. But i still hope you keep an eye out. It sucks too bc as a shy person myself, i would never have the confidence to even approach a girl, but i see stuff like. Guys blowing their chance with dumb stuff like this and man, it just makes me wonder.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

No not all of us, just keep looking trust I mean I also get ghosted for being normal and well adjusted so what do I know

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

I know I was just annoyed cause it happens all the time to me. Idk it’s just hard to find genuine people to talk to nowadays especially of the opposite sex. Idk dating is just weird with me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Yeah I get that. For me it's hard to find someone who won't ghost me

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