Anonymous #1 9w

We did. She’s still mad.

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Anonymous OP 9w

Well nothing she can do about it. You don’t have to have sex if you don’t want to for any reason

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Anonymous #1 9w

Ik but she’s still like mad at me.

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Anonymous OP 9w

Too bad for her ig

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Anonymous #2 9w

Yeah Ik. She’s just in a pissy mood

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I understand it to a certain degree bc we do basically everything else. We just don’t do that bc I regret doing it the first time and I said to myself I wouldn’t do it again. I shouldn’t even be doing all the other stuff

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Anonymous OP 9w

Good for you man, stand up for yourself

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Anonymous OP 9w

Are you abstaining for religious reasons or something? You may just not be sexually or religiously compatible then.

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Anonymous #6 9w

Yeah the main thing is religious reasons. I didn’t wanna do it the first time either the first person I did it with but I did it any way. We are of different religious beliefs and are sexual energies are very different

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Anonymous OP 9w

You guys simply don’t seem like a good fit then. Neither of you should have to compromise on sex

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Yeah. I know. I told her multiple times bc she’s asked me a bunch of times and I told her no and she said why and I said sometimes I think you don’t understand what my religion is and she said I don’t and I don’t really care. Like I get it, but that was too far. Now she’s telling me how she’s bought short tops to wear when she’s around me.

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Anonymous OP 9w

If it matters to you it should matter to her. I would break up with her if I was you. She seems to not understand your boundaries and that can get dicey

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Anonymous #1 9w

I think she’s just mad now. Deep down I think I do feel like it isn’t gonna work in the long run. Different religious beliefs different political beliefs. All sorts of stuff. It’s just crazy bc she’s like never in the mood and I am a lot more than her and it just sucks bc I want to do it with her but I just can’t

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Anonymous OP 9w

So break up soon and spare yourself both the trouble. It’s not worth it to “stick it out” if you don’t think it will work. Sometimes the differences are too big and that’s okay

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Anonymous #8 9w

It’s more common than people talk about.

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Anonymous #3 9w

Does he need a reason?

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Anonymous #2 9w

No no I didn’t mean it like that I apologize

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Anonymous #9 9w

Why would he?

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Anonymous OP 9w

Man if she said she doesn’t care about your religious beliefs after you told her why it matters to you, it means she couldn’t care less about the very way you think of life and purpose itself, what you value and care about. Someone like that will def transfer such disrespect to all other areas of your life for their own whims if it satisfies them

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Anonymous #1 9w

I still wanna be friends with her, but we’ve talked about this before and she said she doesn’t think it’ll work out like that. Which makes me sad but there is some truth to that

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Anonymous benjamin.rush 9w

She just does that whenever she’s in a mood. I’ve told her before it doesn’t matter if you’re feeling a certain way, what you say during those times aren’t excused.

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Anonymous #3 9w

He’s gay

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