Yes

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If he’s talking I doubt he cares

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Some would prefer they be fit but usually they don’t mind those that aren’t

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I personally don’t mind if a girl isn’t already fit and whatnot, but I am a fairly active person and so I’d like her to be at least open to trying something I’m very interested in. Also in terms of long term health, weightlifting (especially relatively heavy weights for everyone) is one of the best things you can do. You don’t have to optimize anything, but without it or a similar activity your bones will become more brittle as you age and it’s entirely preventable

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