ambition in her career, interests, hobbies has a growth mindset supportive of my career, interests, hobbies has similar lifestyle goals as me treats other people with basic human decency

7

Intelligence, Respect, Career, At least a little athleticism, Humor

6

Same religion Respects my parents and siblings Has a good relationship with her family Has at least finished undergraduate education Be willing to move around (idk where I’ll be going for residency and fellowship)

5

Same religion Values family Wants kids Enjoys learning Respects and values me

5

We can banter together She accepts my gender/sexuality Allows me to have 1-1 friends with women Understands my mental health Has some sort of hobby/unique style

1

Gotta be a minority Chill with all my friends even the lady ones Got jokes Chill with me not being in my phone for hours at a time when I’m with family Like or respect all of my hobbies

1

shared values accountability respect ambition empathy

1