Anonymous #2 4w

that was offensive ☹️

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Anonymous #4 4w

sorry

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Anonymous stanczyk 4w

ngl, i do that. but luckily for me, my bf is a mind reader lol

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Anonymous OP 4w

I mean tbh, it's something you can figure out (TO AN EXTENT). At this point whenever i'm in a relationship I basically ignore most things my girlfriend says when she "doesn't need anything" or "doesn't want anything" or "feels fine", but it is still fucking stupid I have to do these mental gymnastics because women are incapable of forward communication and then get mad at you for not deciphering it.

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Anonymous stanczyk 4w

woah woah woah. women are definitely capable of forward communication.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Again I cannot stress enough how fucking insufferable it is when women say one thing (or nothing) but expect another thing, please for all that is good quit with the bullshit.

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Anonymous stanczyk 4w

why are you so angry 😭

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Anonymous OP 4w

When are capable of forward communication when they feel like it, which to me seems to be based on the phase of the moon or some other contrived shit. The only reason I am u using such strong language is because literally EVERY woman I have ever known does this and it is frustrating to no end, it's not cute, it's not fun, it's just pointless convolution to make up something dumb to get angry at us for.

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Anonymous stanczyk 4w

idk my boyfriend doesn’t care that much. i do with my dad too and he doesn’t care. to be fair tho, men also don’t communicate their emotions. so how am i supposed to know if im doing something wrong if they don’t communicate it

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Anonymous OP 4w

We don't get angry at women when they are not attentive to our emotions because that would be dumb considering we chose not to share them, that is the difference.

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Anonymous OP 4w

I can handle my own emotions just fine, I just need to be notified if she actually needs something from me, especially if she will be mad if I do not give it to her.

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Anonymous stanczyk 4w

why would you chose to not share your emotions? that is so frustrating

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Anonymous OP 4w

There are consequences for perceived weakness and vulnerability when you are a man, especially when you chose to do so with your partner. I know of many men, including myself, personally experienced when women who ask for us to be vulnerable finally get to "see behind the curtain" to only be repulsed by the fragility or eventually use what they learned against us in moments of anger. I simply no longer believe that being true and openly vulnerable is safe and am honestly fine with that.

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Anonymous stanczyk 4w

yeah that’s a problem…i understand the stigma behind it but women can tell when a boy is pulling away or not being himself and we think it’s our fault because he doesn’t talk about it. then there’s a fight and it’s frustrating.

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Anonymous stanczyk 4w

How could you ever feel like you love someone or are loved by someone if they don’t even know the true you because you hide it from them? I feel like if they try to use that against you or are scared by seeing you not be some stupid masculine fake alpha male or whatever than they probably aren’t someone worth being with anyway

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