Anonymous #1 11w

Thanks for your insight. I’m thinking he moved his leg away because he doesn’t like me tho? And he never asked for my number but is friendly all the time. I’m not sure how obliviousness could be an explanation in this case

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Anonymous OP 11w

I think it depends. He could’ve moved it bc he was nervous or thought you didn’t notice and didn’t want to be creepy? The number thing could also be because he’s nervous. Some guys aren’t the type to actually make a move on someone who isn’t a sure thing, especially if it’s a coworker. He might not be into you but if he’s friendly enough I’d try asking some questions and flirting a little and see how he reacts

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Anonymous OP 11w

I will always move my leg away if it’s touching another person that I’m not dating or am not related to

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Anonymous #1 11w

True he brags about being the rizzler so I thought he would get it. But to me if someone doesn’t ask for my number then they probably don’t like me

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Anonymous #2 11w

I have big legs unfortunately so sometimes it can’t be helped

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Anonymous #2 11w

That’s true too, I don’t like when people touch me so I usually give myself some space

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Anonymous #1 11w

That’s fair I feel like a creep now 😭

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Anonymous OP 11w

I get that and you seem like a more direct person. Just saying he might not be and I wouldn’t assume that means he’s not interested, just is a little nervous. Up to you, if you want to see if he’s interested though

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Anonymous #1 11w

I need someone to make it clear if they are interested or not trust me I am just as shy nervous and naive 😅

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Anonymous #1 11w

Just because a guy doesn’t initially ask for your number doesn’t mean he wouldn’t consider dating you, connection always has to be initiated by some party, and it sometimes requires being more direct than we’d like

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Hey if you’re a rizzler prove it 🤣. I’m kidding but thank you I’ll think about it. I don’t want to ask him out cause if he says no it’s awkward since we work together

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Anonymous OP 11w

And if he’s into you that’s probably his same thought process lol. Again you don’t have to be too direct, I’d just flirt a bit and see if he responds. If he seems into it, then there you go 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous #2 11w

That’s true. I dunno some things he says seems flirty but he’s like that to other people

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Anonymous #1 11w

I got no rizz but you’re right 🤣

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Anonymous #1 11w

Guys I like make me nervous and I have little dating experience

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Anonymous OP 11w

The men are more scared of you than you are of them

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Anonymous #2 11w

Really? I wonder why that is

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Anonymous OP 11w

Personally I’m a nervous guy in general and so that just extends to women too

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Anonymous #1 11w

To me I don’t mind rejection but I feel desperate when I ask someone out

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Anonymous OP 11w

I mean you could steal the girl who was flirting with me‘s moves and just ask about his prior dating history and what he looks for in a girl he’s interested in

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Anonymous OP 11w

It’s not you in particular it’s just a little saying. Guys care a lot about the approval of women

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Anonymous #2 11w

You’re right about that, my friend’s only reason for instagram is to make thirst traps lol

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Anonymous #2 11w

Even the rizzlers (or self proclaimed)

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Anonymous #1 11w

🤣

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Anonymous OP 11w

Yes men desperately want to present themselves as attractive to girls

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Anonymous #2 11w

Vice versa but I know it’s hard on guys. I think I’m ugly cause I don’t get asked out so I assume everyone isn’t attracted to me

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Anonymous OP 11w

A lot of people aren’t getting asked out these days, we’re not as good at romance as prior generations

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Anonymous #2 11w

Yeah we are cooked

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Anonymous #2 11w

I’m on dating apps for that, don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable or make an awkward situation so they help me find people I know are interested

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Anonymous OP 11w

I’m sure you’re fine, lots of people just seem to be more into flirting/dating through dating apps and social media in general now.

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Anonymous OP 11w

Definitely not a knock against you or your looks

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Anonymous #1 11w

Thank you I hope

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Anonymous #1 11w

Appreciate it. I ain’t the hottest but fingers crossed

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Anonymous OP 11w

I wanted to give an uplifting message about my experiences but it would just seem like I’m trying to boost my ego so just trust me when I say you’re fine 🫡

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Anonymous #1 11w

I wouldn’t mind if you did

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Anonymous OP 11w

Alright, well I’ve always had pretty low self confidence, I even started going to the gym hard recently because of it. It honestly took my friends and multiple different girls telling me I was attractive before I could even start to believe I might be attractive to some people. So when I say I’m sure you’re probably fine, I genuinely mean it lol.

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Anonymous #1 11w

I’m glad you saw that beauty! I’ve been going to the gym but I dunno. People don’t approach me and those who do are wayyyy older so I feel like it doesn’t count. I am insecure about weight and since I’m also POC I assume that people wouldn’t want me either. And I don’t look like female celebrities either

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Anonymous OP 11w

Ii mean older guys are usually more used to the direct approach so I wouldn’t take it as a bad sign. And I’ve always seen comparing yourself to celebrities as more of a goal than an actual comparison. I wouldn’t worry abt it

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