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Hypothetical your gf was sexually abused when she was younger, would you want to know and what would be the best way to tell you
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Anonymous 3w

Ideally I’d want a relationship where we can feel safe and comfortable with one another on that level, so I’d want to know, but only if she’s 100% comfortable telling me.

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Anonymous 3w

i would want to know so i can know how to best treat her. i think you can bring up that you want to talk about something important, whenever he has the time for it and is willing to listen

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Anonymous 3w

Girl here, I wanna know this too:/ I’m scared it’ll change the way he sees me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Exactly and it also explains so many of my issues that have become our relationship issues but it’s hard to talk about. Idk I need opinions

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It will change the way he sees your responses to things and that isn’t bad. Our decision are the sum of our experiences and if you experienced something that evil it’s going to have an impact.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

As a girl who was scared of this, I told my bf of 3 years a few months ago and I think it’s helped him understand y I am the way I am. If any guy treats u poorly bc of this, just know u dodged a bullet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It will definitely change the way he sees you but that's just the nature of having more context. It would change the way I saw someone if they told me they were home schooled. That's not say I think better or worse of them, it's just more context

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