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Question for the men. So I think I was hit on while working today. So backstory is it was like 40 mins before closing guy came in to order a flower arrangement I tell my designer and while he was waiting for it( continued in comments)
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Anonymous 1d

Me personally if I did that it means I’m hitting on you

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Anonymous 1d

I do this but I figured ppl would know I’m just being friendly, now I’m wondering how many people have thought I was hitting on them 😭

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Anonymous 1d

He started looking at the candles and looks to me and says what is your favorite candle ( mind you I’ve worked at this jog for a little over a year and never once had a customer ask me this question it’s typically what would you recommend or what’s the candle most people pick) I then explain my choice in candles. He makes more small talk and smiles while we talk. Then once we’re done he says what’s your name I tell him and he says his name and then says it was lovely meeting you.

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Anonymous 1d

Also customers never ask my name and if they do it’s the older customers

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Anonymous 1d

Idk I mean that seems like friendly talk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I can’t tell when people hit on me idk why. tell me I was being hit on or not

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I swear I need to start doing some research on how to tell when I guy hits on me. I don’t know shit😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I wouldn’t say lovely meeting you though, so maybe this guy was flirting?! I’d say something like hey well it was nice to meet ya, thanks for the rec, have a good one. I talk to dudes the same way, I feel like service workers can have monotonous days and deal with Karens so just being chill and treating them like the actual ppl they are brightens their day a little so yeah I’ll vibe out whoever

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