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Do men have "everything to lose" if they ask out a woman vs a woman asking out a man?
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No
Im a woman
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Anonymous 4d

I once recommended some fairly horny music to a girl, and found out months after the fact that she was telling people I had “threatened to rape” her. That shit only has to happen once, man

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Anonymous 4d

We obviously wouldn’t lose everything, it’s just a bit of hyperbole.

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Anonymous 4d

It’s never that serious

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Hence the quotation marks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

But if I may ask what exactly is being lost besides ego and maybe a bit of self confidence

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Those, the ability to go to comfortably go where you asked them out or shared spaces with them, being labeled a creep or even r*pist which can fuck with your head even if you were polite and respectful, and potentially be humiliated both in real life and worse the internet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

That happens often?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Not super often or anything like that, but often enough.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

tell that to the dude that argued with me for hours abt not making a first move

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