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Reminder that the go to insult for women to use against men is that they are gay or have a small dick
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Like genuinely, why are men insecure about penis? Penis is penis. Penis goes in same place. Why worry about size of penis if all penis work the same 9-5?
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Anonymous 4w

This is a bit of a chicken and egg situation too tho ngl, idk if that is the actual go to insult, but if it is, it may well be bc men are insecure about it and women know it will hurt so they say it. It hurts bc it is emasculating. Why is it emasculating? Well the gay part is obvious bc we don’t like men & don’t want to be considered effeminate (most gay men are stereotypically effeminate). But the tiny dick part I think hits at our idea of being capable, we like thinking of ourselves as capable

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Anonymous 4w

Saying they’re gay is homophobic..

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Anonymous 4w

Not a question but honestly not wrong

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Anonymous 4w

My buddy Adam Friedland has both.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Most gay men are not effeminate, *however* being gay is seen as inherently effeminate colouring every thing they do as under that lens

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

They definitely are, the vast majority of gay men I’ve met have been effeminate in some way. You’re British, so your opinion does not matter

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I’m gay, so I think i’m more of an expert on gay men. The majority of gay men aren’t that open about it *unless* they’re effeminate, usually. And I spell it that way because my parents are canadian, not british

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Your gaydar is only tuned to pick up the effeminate ones. Lots of gays are straight passing.

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