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Guys, when was the last time a girl gave you any sort of physical affection?
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Anonymous 11w

2-3 years

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Anonymous 10w

Never

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Anonymous 11w

Never unless hugs from my grandma count

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Anonymous 11w

About 11 months since I broke up with my ex I think? You get used to it ngl

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Anonymous 11w

3 years, if you count “head on shoulder,” but I met her that night and have not seen her since, nor do I remember her name. Other than that, nothing.

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Anonymous 10w

About 3 years ago… ever since, I’ve not even gotten a text back. Or even a HBD hug from a girl….

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Anonymous 10w

6 years ago besides hugs from family and friends

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Anonymous 10w

About 4 hrs ago

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Anonymous 10w

I cuddled with someone months ago, like 3-5

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Anonymous 10w

2 years ago

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Anonymous 10w

Last weekend hugged some of my girl friends goodbye. Honestly I get it semi-consistently now that I have more girl friends

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Anonymous 11w

2 weeks ago

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Before that like week, February, at least in a romantic context

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

Wtf how

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Literally how do you survive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I mean my first kiss was last February lol, I was 20

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Not that uncommon

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Okay you said you haven’t had anything physical in like two weeks, but before that it had been months??? Like HUH???? I’m just like. . . . trying to learn what “normal” guys go through, I suppose.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I had my first kiss in February, then nothing until 2 weeks ago when I had a brief talking stage (we held hands)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Before that, never had any physical contact in a sexual way that was consensual

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I hug my girl space friends sometimes tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Damn. . . . no casual headpats, tummy tickles, going “aaaaah” and being fed cupcakes? Like not even in a romantic way, just normal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

That seems like bf-gf stuff?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I don’t really fall in love that easily ngl. I have to know someone and gradually grow closer before I start catching serious feelings. There hasn’t really been anyone I’ve met who I’ve been interested in being more than friends with since coming to college, and I’m not really big into dating apps so it’s just not really something that i worry about too much. If it happens it happens, and if it doesn’t then I’ll just keep moving forward in life until it does

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I don’t know any girls (I have almost only girl friends) that would do that with a guy they aren’t dating wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Nope, for me this is normal friend stuff. But like, only friends that are girls (but then again, all my friends are girls LOL)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Unfortunately I don’t get to partake even though my journal is pages and pages of wanting to :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Head pats maybe but tummy tickles is kinda pushing it. I give people head pats but never receive any lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

It’s very common when you’re an unattractive and shy man

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

since then it has been literally NOTHING

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

Poor chap. . . . do you not have any friends who are girls?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

and it was just hand holding

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

Why not hug your friends more?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

She was my last female-friend/girlfriend, me and the bros hug on arrival and departure to and from get togethers but that's it

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