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Do any of yall have any insight as to why a lot of men keep pursuing lesbians after they say theyre a lesbian? Its so frustratinf
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Anonymous 28w

The guys that do that usually don’t respect the identity and think they can turn women straight

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Anonymous 28w

From my experience observing men like that. Those men don’t respect identity and equally they want to be the one to “turn” a lesbian. They want the pride from it

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Anonymous 28w

Like even if i could "be convinced" to date a man what about ignoring my rejection and statement of incapatability would be remotely convincing

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Anonymous 28w

Those are usually the FEW boys who thinks they can “fix” them

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Anonymous 28w

Some guys think with their dicks and not their minds, yall should know this by now

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Anonymous 28w

They’re horny

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Anonymous 28w

Same reason gay guys pursue straight guys

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Anonymous 28w

Usually just shitty guys that can’t take no for an answer

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Anonymous 28w

Maybe because they are sweet souls ?

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Anonymous replying to -> miakhali 28w

Who is a sweet soul the guy or the lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 28w

But why do they think that? Like esp straight guys should be able to understand not being attracted to men in any circumstance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 28w

Idk I’m not one of those guys but imo the most it boils down to is they can’t handle women not being into them, understand other sexualities, or they’re just straight dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 28w

No reason to be patronizing bro obv i know thats an aspect but boys that would otherwise take a rejection from a straight woman do not take one from me which to me says smth else is also going on

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 28w

Never heard of a gay guy being nearly as pushy ab it tho. Like i have to reject guys at least 3 times before they get the hint

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 28w

You’ve clearly never been hit on by a gay guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 28w

Actually i have many times im quite masc

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 28w

I wish it were a few

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 28w

The sealer part of a population making it the few

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 28w

Im talking ab men i interact with personally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 28w

It sucks it keeps happening to you but it is the few

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