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How cooked is dating on your side?? Since I heard sm many guys say they never get any matches on dating apps or dates, is that true?
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Anonymous 3w

I’m not on apps but very cooked, almost impossible to find anyone interested and even then I haven’t found one match in the 2 people in my life that have been interested

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Anonymous 3w

I get a girl that I get close to dating and then it never follows through. This happens about once every 2 years

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Anonymous 3w

i've had far more luck irl than with dating apps 😭 even though people rate me as highly attractive, matches are hard to come by, and ghosting happens pretty often and very quickly. i thought something was wrong with me bc of it. out of the people i did go on dates with though, majority of women were good company and i never felt unsafe. it usually never worked out bc the vibes werent right or we werent good matches

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Anonymous 3w

Well I consider myself an average guy and no one has ever liked me before so 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 3w

I haven’t been on a date in almost 3 years. Can’t get one to save my life

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Anonymous 3w

If I do get a match I’m usually ghosted within 2 days

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Anonymous 3w

Never been on apps. I’ve been on 4 dates in my life, 2 of which were prom. As far as I know, only two girls and one guy have had a crush on me at some point. I’m not into guys, one of the girls had a boyfriend at the time she told me she used to have a crush on me, and the other girl goes to a different school on the other side of the country and her telling me she had a crush on me was the first 1-1 conversation we ever had. Neither girl was the one I took to prom.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

But anecdotally it’s true that most guys get almost nothing from dating apps, other than lower confidence

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

There is a lid for every pot so there will be someone who will love you back!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

We’ll see about that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

The girl I took to prom was the one that got away.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Same. Imma write a song about her

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