Anonymous #2 13h

The winning combo. BUT… I’ve been in one of those before I went back to college where both of us would come home bringing the stress from work back into the house, and it slowly ate at the relationship until we split. Both of us were near top of our fields, both of us loved each other, but both of us bringing that much stress home was unsustainable.

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Anonymous #2 13h

i'm not even talking abt men im trying to form a romantic connection with im just talking abt random men i meet. i have boyfriend and this isn't abt him. so yeah i don't care abt what this random guy in a social gathering is bringing to the table, i just don't see why they immediately try to convince that they could've achieve what i'm achieving. they sometimes role their eyes at me like i'm bragging even though they r the ones who asked me what i do!

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Anonymous #2 13h

i also don't see why ur failed relationship has anything to do with what i'm asking 😭 i'm sorry that happened maybe just don't bring work into the home

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Anonymous OP 13h

roll* opps

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Anonymous OP 13h

omg oops 😭

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Anonymous OP 12h

Why would random men care what you do for work? Thats silly.

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Anonymous OP 12h

Like that’s a him problem then. If a grown man balks at what you spend your time doing professionally… as long as you’re not like… dealing fentanyl to middle schoolers, that guy has to be an extreme level of insecure.

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Anonymous OP 12h

It wouldn’t be “intimidation” then it would be more like… yeah there would be a percentage of men who are insecure about their status enough to feel like it somehow makes them less than achieving their potential… but I figure that’s more of a lack of intelligence + insecurity thing than you’re intimidating them with your presence sort of thing.

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Anonymous OP 12h

But that’s not an exclusively male thing, I see women do that to each other super often.

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Anonymous #4 10h

She literally gave examples of things she’s experienced man

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Anonymous #6 10h

So what? Move on in life… find better men or leave men alone.

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Anonymous #4 10h

I’m pointing out that this isn’t a myth, she literally provided lived examples of men doing this

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Anonymous #6 10h

I get told misandry is a myth despite my lived examples so I guess she get over it like I am told my society to get over it

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Anonymous #4 10h

Oh so you’re just a misogynist, not listening to what you have to say.

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Anonymous #6 10h

Thanks for proving my point. I bet the turd you took was misogynistic too because it didn’t wipe itself. Everything is misogynistic this days. Leave men alone would be my advice for thin skinned women.

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Anonymous #4 10h

Don’t worry, I leave men alone. It’s men who don’t leave ME alone

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Anonymous #6 10h

Tough talk for someone who can’t even remove their thin skin self from askMEN

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Anonymous #4 10h

You’re a boy not a man 😛 #skillissue #idontgiveagaf

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Anonymous #4 9h

One thing about these votes they are not in your favor #4

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Anonymous #8 9h

Idc. As long as society continues to screw them over, I am content lowkey.

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Anonymous #4 9h

Why do you hate women?

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Anonymous #8 9h

I don’t hate anyone but I definitely lack compassion and empathy for those who hate me ♥️

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Anonymous #4 8h

So not all women

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Anonymous #8 8h

If the shoe fits, I’d like to meet one that isn’t misandrist just for the shock effect

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Anonymous #2 8h

i don't expect the care but I expect them to at least respect me?

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Anonymous #4 8h

you getting your feelings hurt by "society" is not misandry. misandry only exists as a result of misogyny.

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Anonymous OP 8h

Women getting their feelings hurt because men don’t date her ass and blame on her having a likely overpayed job isn’t misogyny 👍

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Anonymous OP 8h

Respect is earned among men. And money/titles = status went out the window as a respect thing among men during covid when the government was just handing both of those things out. For men, you don’t get what you deserve, you get what you work for. I mean this in the most humble way possible, if you expect respect based on a title you hold, you likely will only find it among other people who base their value off similar titles.

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Anonymous OP 8h

Respect is always and only EARNED. Never expected. If you feel disrespected, you haven’t earned. Crying misogyny will also certainly not gain you respect either.

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Anonymous OP 7h

Men aren’t intimidated by women with careers, men are competitive with people who act like they’re better than them. “They immediately try to convince me that they could’ve achieved what I achieved” sounds like you have some kind of superiority complex where you feel like you need to be praised for doing what others can’t.

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Anonymous #10 7h

^^^ the men she’s talking about. The guys are dismissive and you end up saying SHE has a complex? Yikes.

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Anonymous #2 6h

yes, i worked to get into medical school and still working to become a doctor. that's me earning their respect. its disrespectful and belittling to me to say that you could've done it too but decided not? its giving insecure and its just disrespectful.

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Anonymous #4 6h

i never said it was, also im in a relationship

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Anonymous #2 6h

i also feel like this is BS, bc my bf is also in medical school and never has interactions with men like i do when he tells them. in fact they usually congratulate him or tell him good on him. one time it was even followed up by a man making a joke i only went to medical school to follow him! 🙄 when that's actually where we met! well during undergrad. I just don't see why it isn't the same for me

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Anonymous #2 34m

As someone going to med school this shit is hard af and deserves respect

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