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Am I the only one who wishes hard questions got out of the way sooner? Like imagine ur dating this girl and she drops something thats a deal breaker and now feelings get hurt because you like each other when you coulda found out on date number one.
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Do you think it’s valid to stop talking to a guy bc he asked for your body count way too early? Like we haven’t even hung out or anything
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Anonymous 4w

After reading the comments, he didn’t ask anything normal that guys a weirdo. My point still stands tho for the rest😭

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Anonymous 4w

Ok, but imagine if she asked "how big is your dick." Would you be ok with that?

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Anonymous 4w

I mean yeah if you think body count is a dealbreaker I wanna know sooner rather than later so I don’t waste my time. Just be prepared for reactions considering a lot of women think that’s a disrespectful question to ask early

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Anonymous 4w

yeah i would feel upset if we got emotionally invested and then she drops that she has an OF or has like 40 bodies, or is MAGA or sumth

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I’m just talking in general. Like girls will wonder why men ghost them but half the time it’s because they’ll mention something that’s a deal breaker and he just can’t get past it. May as well get those out the way immediately

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah but there’s a difference between doing so disrespectfully and respectfully. Jumping straight to body count before asking about other things is going to be seen as disrespectful

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah, i get that, thats why i commented saying that guys a weirdo. I’m just saying that people should bring up hard topics early

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Lmao don’t wanna get invested if he’s got a micro

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Yeah but imagine if he never told u then u wanna leave and he’s hurt even more

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