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What are some signs that y'all as men aren't interested in a woman romantically but want to string them along?
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Anonymous 3d

I feel like the type of men who string women along aren’t gonna be the type to tell you the actual answer. I am telling you this as a man. This is a very stupid game to play with someone, and I would hate if it were done to me.

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Anonymous 3d

Are you heavyset and working on losing weight? If so he may see potential but isn’t currently attracted to you but is staying friends to see the results before fully committing to a romantic relationship. I know myself and quite few guys will do this because it’s one of the only ways to get into a relationship nowadays. Sometimes it’s also something like drinking or smoking that we want to see if you can quit before committing to a relationship.

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Anonymous 3d

If while in the relationship they seem uninterested and won’t engage in communication

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Anonymous 3d

Are you bartering sex for specific romantic gestures or relationship benchmarks? That’s usually a pretty surefire sign, especially since it can dampen romantic interest that may otherwise have been present and make them come across as more performative (bc it is)

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Anonymous 3d

Never

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Anonymous 3d

I never want to string anyone along

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Anonymous 3d

Because everyone likes to be liked.

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Anonymous 2d

Need more examples. Any emotional cues?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

This is weird...but no this isn't applicable to me at all, just a question. And no, I am the opposite of heavyset

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I’ll admit it’s weird and not something we’re proud of but is just the final stage of relationships before we just give up altogether.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Well thankfully I probably wouldn't be with a guy who is close to just giving up (still in my 20's, still young

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