Anonymous #1 6w

How is it important I want him to like me :(

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Anonymous #1 6w

And im trying to get a new one :( but i want him to:(

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Anonymous OP 6w

if you don’t block that man 😍

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Anonymous OP 6w

u really wanna go into 2026 pining after a guy that has shown you he has NO interest in you? hell no….

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Anonymous #1 6w

It’s my ex I want my ex

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Anonymous #1 6w

Why should o block him will it get it off my mind?

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Anonymous OP 6w

and i get it bc i was in the same boat a couple months ago but they do NOT want us and their actions speak louder than anything else regarding that. you will never know peace if you don’t move on. look at carrie bradshaw and mr big. he ruined her life!

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Anonymous #1 6w

You a man ?

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Anonymous #1 6w

How do I get him off my mind :(

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Anonymous OP 6w

no i’m a girl and i have your best interests at heart bc i emphasize with you. best way to get him off your mind is to detox. block him, cry it out, swipe on hinge, flirt. take a long shower, find a cute NYE outfit, listen to fergalicious, watch Bridget Jones Diary, go for a walk in the cold, apply for jobs or opportunities

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Anonymous #1 6w

Aww you’re a girl

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Anonymous #1 6w

Thank you sweets. We tried to make it work a year after the break up It didn’t work a few months went by. We tried again and then he left me a couple couple weeks ago saying he wants to leave this in the past even though days before he said we can work things out slowly, so I have been very sad even though he was bad for me.

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Anonymous OP 6w

<3 luv u diva. u cant move on if ur always looking over your shoulder. i know breakups are hard but you’re not alone and time will really help. but this is the ideal time to be getting over it bc there’s a whole new year ahead of us!!!! we can literally start 2026 ready to be the best versions of ourselves. it’s gonna be great. i’m single too rn and im a little sad but im also optimistic ab my future w/o worrying ab a guy who didn’t really care that much ab me :)

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Anonymous #1 6w

I don’t have friends to hang w to get him off my mind either so im in it all by myself :/

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Anonymous #1 6w

I should’ve just moved on completely and shouldn’t have tried to go back to him two times

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Anonymous OP 6w

i get it. me and my ex spent months “trying to be friends” but it was too complicated. and looking back on it, he wasn’t very nice to me for a lot of it. sometimes it can be a relief to stop trying to put in constant effort in a relationship that just isn’t working. i think the man i’m gonna marry is gonna be committed to staying with me and fighting with me for us instead of giving up. my ex and i don’t talk anymore, and i was really hurt bc i cared about him, but i wasn’t thinking of myself.-

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Anonymous #1 6w

at the end of the day, i also need someone who cares about me and making it work with me. i can’t spend every day worried that hes gonna try to leave me over any fight or dispute. i want a man that cares about me, or i dont want to date. now that a little while has passed, i can look back and see that things weren’t so great. i’m still sad but im grateful that i learned that for the future. it just sucks rn. a year from now? it won’t be so bad. besides hot girl summer is in a few months :D

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Anonymous OP 6w

it’s okay honey!! i tried to go back to my ex like a dozen times and each time he said no in a slightly meaner way :/. hindsight is 20/20. sometimes not having people around can give you space to process being alone without him. journaling really helped me get it all out. but also just a show ab girls going through similar stuff helped me like sex and the city. but you’re not alone!! lots of people go through breakups and it’s never easy. but we all make it out alive :)

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Anonymous #1 6w

Just when you put 2 toxic people 2gether it just doesn’t work out but my heart cried and I thought of him 24 seven for months until April this year from Oct 24 - April 25 I thought I put the work in in and finally go to therapy like he wanted me to, but I realized I didn’t go to enough sessions and the issue was still there. I just hope I find somebody who accepts me for me. Hopefully I find something he is loving.

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Anonymous #1 6w

And it’s like all I know is he is a minute away from me with no care in the world about me

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Anonymous OP 6w

it’s okay lots of people feel that way! and you’re right when you find the right person it’ll feel easy. a relationship isn’t supposed to be hard. the hard stuff is for marriage and kids and shit. i think you should just take a little break, block him and go no contact, restrict him on insta if you don’t wanna unfollow him, and take a long everything shower to cry in. keep seeing your therapist, journal about how you feel, and remember that you’re young and life is crazy. 2026!!!!

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Anonymous #1 6w

Tyy I gave that therapist up for school lord I’d love to be in therapy right now but I had to go to school . But once break is over I’ll have one at school! I’m jsut scared I’ll never find someone who willl accept me for my shy self and it’s kinda hard to feel this way

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Anonymous #1 6w

Just blocked him hopefully I don’t give in and unblock

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Anonymous #2 6w

Obv

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Anonymous #2 6w

When you block me if you didn’t like me

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Anonymous #2 6w

Wouldn’t he

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Anonymous OP 6w

Nah I never block people

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Anonymous #2 6w

Well that’s only for you not universal

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Anonymous OP 6w

Nothing is universal

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Anonymous #2 6w

Duh

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Anonymous OP 6w

he doesn’t need to block you. him not reaching out his him not liking you. i’m sorry baby love. you should block him for your own peace of mind so you can move on

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Anonymous OP 6w

i’m so proud of you! sometimes when the urge to unblock is super strong, i write down the date and time of every time i want to unblock him in a notes app instead of doing it lmao. it’s funny to see how often to less often it gets over time and i can look back and laugh at all of the lame guys i seriously considered letting back into my life over the years

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Anonymous #1 6w

New year I’m finding a therapist!

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Anonymous #1 6w

Until I go back to school so I get like 1 sess in lmaooo

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