Anonymous #2 3w

God this is so refreshing to hear, especially after some rando on YikYak said the reason i got ghosted was because i was fat even though i specifically said i was taller, fit, muscular, and just still had a tummy / typically wore large or xl clothes depending on the brand

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Anonymous #2 3w

When you say very little muscle mass does that mean you are attracted to girls with slightly visible muscles or like toned bodies?

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Anonymous OP 3w

Don’t take yikyak randos to heart, I know many men who love that build (I don’t have a physical type personally but it def is hot, respectfully)

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Anonymous #3 3w

Just FYI “toned” is a term mostly used by people who spread false gym info to women or women who just don’t know better. A “toned” look means someone is lean(lower body fat) and this allows some muscle definition to show. Usually this requires to build some muscle though as being very lean with no muscle makes you look like a skeleton at a certain point. The bigger the muscle, you can have more “tone” or visible definition at higher body fat.

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Anonymous #4 3w

Thank you for the clarification!

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Anonymous #3 3w

You can’t really get “big and bulky” by accident from lifting either. This is another myth that goes along with the word “toned” a lot. Lots of high men train to get as big as possible but nearly none of them get close to being a veiny huge freak. If you apply yourself to lifting heavy and not just like low weight high reps like many people try to preach you can achieve a “toned” look much faster because bigger muscles start to become visible without needing to lose fat

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Anonymous #3 3w

Sorry to rant on you but I really hate how much fitness misinformation there is, especially when it comes to people being manipulative on purpose and misleading their audiences

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Anonymous #4 3w

No totally valid. I had to google “toned” before asking bc I didn’t even know what it meant lmao

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Anonymous #3 3w

To answer your question, I would say it’s more like I am more attracted to women that are visibly trained/training. I don’t need a woman to be super low body fat, but that natural strength kind of look is nice to see. Also I train a lot since I enjoy it, and it’s nice to be with someone that also likes fitness. Btw like the other person said, you can have very visible muscle if you are extremely skinny even if the muscles themselves aren’t that big

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Anonymous #2 3w

The “skinny-ness” isn’t the part that’s more attractive to me, the built up muscle is

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