Yes. Don't play games.

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don’t test your bf. yes, he has a right to know if you do. it is a valid deal breaker to not want to be with someone who can’t accept and trust who you’ve shown yourself to be. he’s also only 19, one would hope he’s maturing from whatever you found that is so horrendous that you would consider risking the whole relationship over. and barring some pretty insane shit being the reason you don’t “trust” him now, he deserves the faith that he’s working to be a better person

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don’t fucking do that. if you need to test him, you clearly don’t fully trust him, and shouldn’t be together. even if you have reasons not to trust him, don’t do it. why would you be together if you don’t 100% trust the guy???

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If I found out my gf “tested” me for any reason it would be an instant breakup

7

would be a deal breaker. teachers give tests and its not good to date your teachers

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for more info, my boyfriend (19) had a bad playboy past b4 we started dating. Im the complete OPPOSITE of his usual type but I’m currently his longest relationship. did some digging and found out some things that he def wouldn’t want me knowing. I know testing him probably seems extreme and if I do this and he finds out he will be extremely hurt (especially considering he is very touchy when I bring up doubts about his past) but I can no longer trust his word.

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If you have a gut feeling do whatever will either make it go away or confirm it

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