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I (F20) am a virgin and it’s important to me to be in a long term relationship before I have sex (min. 6 mo) do you think guys will be receptive to that? I also crave affection and I’m scared to cave early, so I want a man who supports me. Thoughts?
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Anonymous 4w

If a guy try’s and makes you when you’ve said you want to wait he’s not the right guy just be up front that you wanna wait and if he actually likes you he should be fine with that if not he probably only wants sex

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Anonymous 4w

The right guy will be receptive to it. If someone isn’t receptive to your boundaries, that person isn’t for you.

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Anonymous 4w

That’s a very light standard. Don’t let anyone make you think it’s strict or unfair

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Anonymous 3w

I’m a M22 virgin and I’d prefer that, though I realize I’m probably in the minority on that

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Anonymous 4w

i think if a guy is serious, really thinks you're worth it and isn't looking to just have sex, 6 months really is nothing

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Anonymous 4w

I think this is great, I feel like I’m the same as a guy so just try to find one that is like that too I’m sure the right guy will be more than happy about it

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Anonymous 4w

You can find that yeah

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Anonymous 4w

You’ve already identified what you’re comfortable/not comfortable with, which is awesome. It’s 2026 - it’s gonna be hard to find a guy that’s okay with that, but it’s not gonna be impossible. Take your time and wait for the right one. Any guy who encroaches on your boundaries is not the right guy

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Anonymous 2w

The kind of guy you want will be receptive to that. Lots of guys won’t be, and that’s a okay, let them find someone else.

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