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How would guys react if the girl they are dating tells them they have a CNC kink(consensual non-consent) and they want them to pretend SA them??
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Anonymous 2w

Nope. Nope. Nope. Absolutely not.

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Anonymous 2w

Idk im into it but it requires a massive amount of trust and ultimately the sub needs to have a shut off switch the dom needs to respect at any time. I also have aftercare for me as a must because without it i can feel really icky and emotional. Obv mutual aftercare but ive been neglected before :(

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Anonymous 2w

I don’t think it’d be my cup of tea, but I might be willing to try it once. Granted both parties should be sure of consent and have an agreed upon safe word

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Anonymous 1w

I think I’d be open to trying it, but only after a very very long conversation about boundaries, limits, and expectations

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Anonymous 2w

I’m ngl that would be a long ass conversation and lots of aftercare prep but I was fully open to it with my ex (we never ended up doing it). Honestly I would feel really icky doing it though if she had experience with actual SA in the past and it was a coping mechanism.

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Anonymous 1w

That’s disturbing and shouldn’t be a thing honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That's so true it takes a lot of talking and especially a safe word to properly make it work but it's a huge guilty pleasure of mine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

And its soo important to have a game plan if things go wrong and either person gets fucked up from it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Not judging but I would not be comfortable with doing that at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

That's understandable you still have limits and you are allowed to feel a certain way!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Just cuz u dont like it doesnt mean it shouldnt exist lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

This is done between two consenting adults so who cares

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah, the one time I’ve met a girl who was into it, she didn’t ask for *my* consent

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yeah i'm open to kinks like this but i feel like i need to have a lot of trust with the person and systems in place for when things go wrong

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