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Are you bothered by “man hating” ideology in women?

Anonymous 10w

I find it annoying and off-putting the same way I find it annoying and off-putting when I hear a dude spouting hatred for women. I don’t think most of either group really hates the other sex either, I think they’re just not getting where they want with them. Incels aren’t getting laid, and “man-haters” aren’t finding good commitment. So their unfulfilled desires become resentment.

Anonymous 9w

I think its very nuanced but i'm self aware enough to understand a lot of women are "man haters" for their own protection. i'd be stupid to say that they have "no reason" to be apprehensive of men as a whole. it just becomes an issue when they start to treat all men a certain way

Anonymous 9w

I usually just say whatever they said about men about women and they get super pissed 😂

Anonymous 9w

Not anymore, think what you want to think at this point. I’m satisfied being the only one who knows the truth.

Anonymous 10w

Nah. I am bothered if they treat it like they have a right to disrespect me as a man when I didn’t do anything

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#3 10w

I like this take, very nuanced

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Anonymous 10w

This is also definitely true

Anonymous 10w

I mean, yeah, that asymmetrical social pressure exists because when men foster a resentment towards women, they’re far more likely to become violent about it than women are. Women kinda get the pass on misandry because there’s not much we think they’re gonna do about it other than post “I hate men.” on their instagram story.

Anonymous 10w

It’s like how catcalling is way worse when a man does it to a woman walking down the street than when a woman does it to a man walking down the street. Every woman I know gets scared when a strange man hollers something sexual at her out of a car window. The man gets perceived as a threat, because he is one. I’ve been catcalled by a Jeep full of women while on a jog. That shit lowkey made my day, I didn’t perceive the girls as a threat at all. Men having a greater capacity for violence matters.

Anonymous

#6 9w

That 9/11 was an inside job?

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Anonymous 9w

I am

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pirosnake 9w

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pirosnake 9w

Ure hilarious

Anonymous

#11 9w

I try

Anonymous

#3 8w

i sort of agree but i think the unequal sexual violence women experience and that exists around the globe contributes more to “man haters” than bad relationships

Anonymous

#12 8w

I’m just saying, in my personal experience, when I’ve seen women who are my friends post about hating men, it’s almost always just because of some failed situationship or a breakup. Which I think takes away some of the punch from that rhetoric when it is also used in the context of much more serious gendered issues like you’ve mentioned.

Anonymous

#3 8w

yeah it definitely started as a way to vent anger at these injustices but the internet will do its thing lol. still i feel that while when girls do that i find it just immature, when boys do its legit creepy and usually precursor to other bad shit