Anonymous #7 13h

I feel you💔

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Anonymous #6 13h

What would be a good way to launch a conversation even into friendship tho so I can gauge the potential?

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Anonymous #4 13h

Felt, but dw I’m sure you’ll find your person!

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Anonymous OP 13h

nah i gave up on that, i turned avoidant now

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Anonymous #4 13h

Well you’re still young, you have so much time. And ik people say that love finds you when you’re not looking, don’t give up hope!

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Anonymous OP 13h

I would just do it and respect them Like there is no other way to do it I’ve just stopped trying cus I get hurt too much I’m lk not that helpful

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Anonymous OP 12h

i mean i’m not old but im also not that young like the rest of you like i avoid the other groups with the younger and more “active” groups

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Anonymous #5 10h

It’s hard to think that way when so many men think with their dick instead of their brain.

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Anonymous #8 10h

Stop interacting exclusively with players. The vast majority of men are not like that

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Anonymous #5 10h

Yeah, I don’t. My relationships have all been 2+ years and the problem ends up being that “good” guys end up cheating and lying. And the male friends I have end up just wanting to sleep with me. Any other suggestions?

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Anonymous #8 10h

Dating sucks and there are no universal fixes really. Most people will have to endure some form of heartache and disappointment before they find someone. You can only continue to try

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Anonymous #8 10h

i actually have no suggestions, i’ve never tried to sleep with my girl friends, but i guess guys are just opportunistic so like maybe use keywords like “brother” or like “family” when you refer to them because friendzone is possible to get out of but once you are “brother zoned” you’re never leaving there so that would stop people from wanting to sleep with you hopefully

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Anonymous #4 10h

not people, but your friends i mean

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Anonymous #8 10h

as for the “good” guys cheating i do believe there is a reason for it like it’s fucked up and i’m not defending it but like i’ve heard a lot of stories and like some of them come down to like lack of drive forced you to go somewhere else but like why not just break up if you’re not happy (unless the other person is psychotic and doesn’t let you leave)

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Anonymous #4 9h

Lack of drive was def not the problem lol. In most instances it was porn addiction and bad decision making. And yeah, you’d think the “brother zone” would work, but you’d be surprised.

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Anonymous #8 9h

you’re attracted the alabamians with the “brother zone” maybe

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Anonymous #4 9h

but yeah porn addiction and bad decisions are dumb but i feel like that’s a personality thing so they probably always made bad decisions

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Anonymous #4 9h

I mean, I hope you’re right. Some of them are really good actors though.

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Anonymous #8 9h

I have male friends who get the same thing with women. Stop saying it’s a male only problem

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Anonymous #5 9h

I’m not 💀 just saying most of my experiences have been with men

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Anonymous #8 8h

isn’t a person that change their personality at will considered a sociopath? or is that something else?

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Anonymous #4 8h

can* my phone deleted the word as i typed it

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Anonymous #4 5h

i’m 26 people, i have people in my comments asking like hating me

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Anonymous #4 5h

The way you phrased it made me think u were 30 bro

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Anonymous #9 5h

if i was 30 i would’ve just called myself old as dust, but no im 26 like im older than someone thats like 21 but im younger than someone thats like 30 like thats the range i was trying to say

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