Yeah, I find people attractive all the time, but i won’t be infatuated with them unless I actually get to know them and there’s chemistry

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like if you are catching feelings for someone you haven't even had a full conversation with yet then that is creep behavior not just a "crush" it's different if you're close friends but in my experience so men crush on women so hard they start to catch feelings for a person they don't even know

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It’s different for men and women. I think desperation is a factor because men have a lot more trouble finding anyone who likes them, and so when they finally do they become hooked instantly. This is literally happening to me right now, I am literally obsessed with this girl in my class just because she looks at me from time to time. I know that she probably doesn’t like me and I shouldn’t be obsessed, but I can’t help it

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