Anonymous #1 5d

Ugh

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Anonymous #2 5d

Ughhhh. I wanna date my boy best friend so bad but I lowkey think he just doesn’t get any hints but at the same time I’m like HOW does he not pick up on it. I make it so obvious and I’m too afraid to say it straight up because I don’t want to ruin the friendship 😭

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Anonymous OP 5d

The risk of us seeing a hint where there isnt one is greater than that of missing a hint. You have to be more direct

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Anonymous OP 5d

What hints are you doing?

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Anonymous #1 5d

True but I’m so worried about rejection and embarrassment because I like him so much. I really feel like he is my soulmate 💔🥀

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Anonymous #2 5d

Jokingly called him daddy and good boy over text today. And I also tell him I love him at least once a day and he doesn’t say it back but I think it’s bc he’s scared to idk (or I hope idk). He said “I can’t use rizz with him because we’re not dating” and I just wanted to say “aren’t you supposed to use rizz before hand to even get into a relationship” but I didn’t. I also compliment him a lot and save his snaps in the chat that he looks good in.

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Anonymous OP 5d

Like I’ll say he’s shirt looks nice or his eyes are pretty. He got a haircut the other day and I said it was “cute!!”

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Anonymous OP 5d

Start subtly touching bro, that’s one of the few hints we pick up on

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Anonymous #5 5d

I can’t we’re long distance 💔

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Anonymous #7 5d

We don’t get hints because hints could ALSO not be hints. A girl could be hinting heavily that she’s flirting but if you call her out for it “what no I thought we were just friends??” That’s why you gotta say you’re interested upfront or else we ain’t taking chances

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Anonymous OP 5d

Guys are low-key used to all those things from girls who just want to be friends. Play-flirting, telling them you love them and appreciate having them in your life, anything except an actual romantic gesture, they’ve heard it before from someone who wasn’t interested, so they’re not gonna want to screw up the friendship by gambling that you actually feel that way

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Anonymous #9 5d

You’re right bruv 💔

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Anonymous #7 5d

I do that bc I’m scared that he doesn’t feel the same way 💔

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Anonymous OP 5d

Believe me, I’ve been in your shoes before multiple times. You’ve just gotta tell him how you actually feel. He might feel the same way, and he might not, but it’s worth it either way.

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Anonymous OP 5d

Well it’s a game for both sides. If you like him, you don’t know if he likes you back; if he likes you, he doesn’t know if you like him back.

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Anonymous #7 5d

True. Ik he doesn’t think I’m ugly bc he says I’m not and we actually started in a talking stage but just kind of morphed into best friends instead. But idk if i ask him to call he says “maybe” and we dont end up calling bc he wants to play his games instead. So thats the only reason why I dont know if he likes me back because if he did wouldnt he want to talk to me? Idk.

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Anonymous #9 5d

I’ll probably never tell him 😕

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Anonymous OP 5d

So he says you’re not ugly, but you’re not cute? It sounds like yall are just friends. You could try pulling him, go out for drinks and touch on him some like his arm or call him cute or whatever, good way to get him reinterested if there ever was interest.

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Anonymous OP 5d

The games thing can be kinda hard cause it depends on the dude. Can’t really make a conclusion one way or the other based on just that

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Anonymous #7 5d

No he’s called me pretty before. Were long distance so can’t really go out 💔

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Anonymous OP 5d

First of all why do you wanna do long distance, long distance sucks, take it from someone that’s done it 😴

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Anonymous #7 5d

I’ve done it too and it wasn’t too bad. I just feel like he’s my person and I’d take a chance on it.

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