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Yall is it bad that I ended things with a girl because she lowkey had a high body count and I just like couldn’t do relationship because of that im p beat up rn
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Anonymous 5d

It’s your choice, but reflect why body count matters to you and find the root cause of your feelings towards it

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Anonymous 5d

I mean, if you knew you couldn’t be happy with someone like her then you probably did both of you a favor by ending things quickly rather than dragging them out when they have no chance of working out

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Anonymous 5d

Nah you did a good thing. To me a high body count legit signifies low respect for yourself. Like smb who just sleeps with anybody and I think it says alot about the person. It’s better to find a girl who fits what you’re looking for

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Anonymous 5d

I mean prolly for the best, u wouldn’t be able to give it ur all

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Anonymous 5d

I’m a girl I’m just curious what was it? I don’t think mines high but I just wanna see for reference

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Yea and like I kept saying not serious and she agreed but I could tell she wanted more and I didn’t wanna lead her on anymore or get anymore attached just sucks u know

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Yea it just sucks tbh mines just low I dont believe in sleeping around with people and hers wasn’t even high compared to society as a whole but for me I just like yea

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

Hers was 6 but I only considered it really high because mines 2 so like 3 times as many bodies and it’s like damn bruh u just sleep w anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Oop- that was mine but he was my 6th and his was 4 I’m hoping he didn’t think mine was too high 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

My ex’s was 30 bro, didn’t find out till late in the relationship. It could be a lot worse bro.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Mine was 2 so 15x

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Damn bro sorry about that I’m more just like butthurt like damn i really liked u to

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

I mean idk to me like body counts matter and if ur like hooking up w anyone and everyone I just don’t think it’s like good I also keep mine low because of that so I’m not being a hypocrite it’s more like damn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

That’s not even high

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

6 is not high how old are you guys 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

I haven’t even gotten six yet 😭 like what

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I’m ngl bro this is wild, the ratio doesn’t matter with small numbers that like saying someone with 3 bodies shouldn’t date somebody with 1. It’s just pointless like it’s not “sleeping around” to have hooked up 2-3 times in college and have had 2-3 boyfriends at some point. This is actual delusion. Coming from somebody with 1 body btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

“How old are you guys” I just laughed at this bro I’m cooked (idc about body count tho)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

lol 🤦🏽‍♀️ but it doesn’t matter truly it depend on if ur being unsafe but like a reasonable amount is fine. I’ve only had 2 bodies yet I’ve had sex probably 25 times so why does it anther?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

That’s his personal choice. He has the right to not want to be with someone who has multiple bodies the same way that person has the right to have multiple bodies.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

Yeah but he’s outright judging her. We also have the right to go against his opinion. It matters how old they are but six is definitely not a lot.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

I mean we 20 so it’s not crazy but I personally kept mine low on purpose like I’m allowed to want someone with the same amount and I never judged her nor said that to her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Yeah but it just seeems counter active 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

Wdym

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

what do you think the average is for someone in modern society?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

i understand what you mean, but some of my friends have higher body counts because they started dating early in life (dating for 1 year or more at 12/13, and multiple longer relationships following). i do think it’s a little weird for people to be having sex so young, but the timespan of sexual activity is different for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4d

Not sure tbh but like I don’t think that’s relevant tbf I have things that i believe in and tbh I did the right thing instead of wasting both our times and knowing it won’t lead anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

if you were to guess what would you think? but i agree, it’s better to have a clean break than to prolong something that wouldn’t last anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4d

Prob like 3 for age 20

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

6 imo is high but not as high as you were making it sound, also depends how many of those she dated

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

It’s not fucking anyone and everyone especially with how easy it is for a girl to

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