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Ask Men 1w
Why my ex talking shit about me like he didn’t treat me like shit and give me every reason to end things w him bro 😭😭😭😭
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Anonymous 1w

He was playing 4d chess to get you to leave him

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Anonymous 1w

He’s sad and ashamed. Doesn’t excuse his immature behavior, but men often try to cover humiliation and complicated feelings with anger and contempt.

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Anonymous 1w

L

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

But like why play games at his grown age why not just leave me his last two relationships he’s been the one to break them off so clearly that’s not an issue for him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I can’t speak to his motives. But my comment was also a little unserious. Some people cope with their lack of control over things like this by making it seem like they were in control the whole time (i.e. your ex talking trash even though he’s the reason for the break up) I hope that helps

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Anonymous replying to -> evilbusinessmajor 1w

Yeah that’s what I figured I just expected better behavior from a grown adult.. he’s 21 bro 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Men aren’t socialized well. Shit sucks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Immature

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