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I don’t know how to put myself out there again after being in a 5 year relationship 😭 I feel like I have this internalized mindset that men only want sex and they don’t actually get to know me.
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Anonymous 1w

Therapy or other mental health support then probably

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Anonymous 1w

I am sorry I can’t imagine that :(

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Anonymous 1w

I’m in the same spot rn. I want to date but I’m also on demon time bc my ex and I rarely had sex. Seems like most men now are gone the second you give it up to them

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Anonymous 1w

There are genuine men

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Anonymous 1w

Not a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I reached the word count and forgot to add lol yeah what do I do about this basically

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Hmm yeah but how do I tell

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Anonymous replying to -> antarticcat 1w

:((

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Withhold sex for as long as you want to and see if he flips his shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I have kind of a hard time doing that too 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

Omg yeah??😭 I haven’t tried to date yet 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Trust me friend there are a lot of time wasters but if u have clear boundaries and learn to be okay without, you will have a fun time. Took a couple heartbreaks to get there but there will be guys who will treat you right. Wishing the best for you <

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