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I like this guy from work. We don’t hang out or talk outside of it and I tried telling him but I chickened out. His friend says that I should tell him but I’m not sure because in the past I told guys I liked them early on and they rejected me
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Anonymous 8w

don’t shit where you eat.

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Anonymous 8w

If his friend is telling you then chances are they’ve chatted about you

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Anonymous 8w

If you’re nervous about messing things up, go slower. Don’t just tell him you like him, add him on social media and start talking outside of work. Then as you get to talking more invite him to do something if he’s taking too long to ask you

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Anonymous 8w

I had a similar experience with a guy i work with. i tried to tell him i liked him by giving him my number, but he never texted me. and then i tried to ask for his number and he rejected me and said he doesnt give out his personal info like that. its hard bc i really like him a lot😕

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

#1 advice over all. Hit em up when one of y’all quits

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 8w

I hope. When I ignore him he tries to talk to me but when I initiate he doesn’t reciprocate strongly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Well I texted him (got his number from a group chat) but he didn’t respond after a bit and I asked for his socials and followed him he took too long to follow me so I unfollowed him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Then it wasn’t meant for you, sorry to hear that but not you can move on to better stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Yes I’m just being delusional. Any guy I like doesn’t like me. Feels like I’m broken or something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Woah, wait a minute. You aren’t broken or anything like that. And what’s delusional about this situation?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Thinking he liked me or ever would

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

What’s delusional about that? You two talked and liked it and the vibes were good. You thought they might be more than just friendly and sounds like he’s maybe more hesitant or busy or whatever. Not delusional, just not on the same page

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I dunno. The guys I like don’t like me back and honestly I’m not great at flirting. Or maybe I’m not attractive enough

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Well you can get better at flirting and I bet you look great. You seem like a chill person and that’s already a good start

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

Thank you I appreciate it. I have so much to improve on tho. You’re nice ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

I found him on insta, but my friend said not to dm him bc he also told one of my coworkers one day that hes not into men or women??? so idk what his type is

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

also im quietly finding things out about him. like yesterday i learned that hes alergic to chocolate?? just in normal conversation about a candy bar. sooo idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Yeah well I can relate now. Sometimes I wonder if I’m unlovable. It hurts but it’s an experience. At least I’m not alone

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