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He said he convinced his last girlfriend to have a threesome she didn’t want and he said he thinks he can convince me to do anal😭 valid reason to cut him off? I don’t want to be with someone who try’s to convince me to do things I don’t want to do
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Anonymous 3w

I’m wary of anyone who claims they can “convince “ someone to do something especially regarding sex, so yeah

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Anonymous 3w

That’s creepy. If he really wants to that, that’s DEFINITIVELY NOT how a “normal” man approaches it.

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Anonymous 3w

Valid

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Anonymous 3w

Bragging that you manipulate partners is a red flag 🚩

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Anonymous 3w

It’s giving ‘he’s very likely to rape you’

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Anonymous 3w

very valid reason to cut him off.

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah… thats fucked.

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Anonymous 3w

yes. that’s sexual coercion and it’s a crime

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Anonymous 3w

Yes

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Anonymous 3w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

^^^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

^^^^^thisssss. or implying how willing he is to blow past your boundaries and comfortability level for the sake of satisfying his own needs over yours because he doesn’t already know whether or not you would be open to that. but it implies he views boundaries of other people as “flexible” and something he can negotiate, rather than them being something that is your own comfortability level and what you want and need. bare minimum, it means he’s very emotionally immature and not ready to be a

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

partner. maximum, he is a massive piece of shit

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