
^^^^^thisssss. or implying how willing he is to blow past your boundaries and comfortability level for the sake of satisfying his own needs over yours because he doesn’t already know whether or not you would be open to that. but it implies he views boundaries of other people as “flexible” and something he can negotiate, rather than them being something that is your own comfortability level and what you want and need. bare minimum, it means he’s very emotionally immature and not ready to be a