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I’ve been kind of talking to this guy on insta, he mildly flirts but he usually responds in 1-2days and I’ve kinda been following along cause I don’t wanna seem desperate but I don’t rlly like the “don’t text fast” concept but idk if I should respond fast
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Anonymous 1d

Mix it up. Respond in an hour or so every once in a while (sparingly.. almost like it’s random) just to see what happens

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Well he texted me back 6hrs ago should I do it today?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

One time respond quick. It’s more weird if there’s no time when your texting someone that they never happen to be free so close that gap and see if he reciprocates

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Maybe it’ll turn into an actual convo in time and not over a week

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