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Ask Men 6w
guys I’m ab to be a girlfriend for the first time any advice 😅I’m 19 btw!
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Anonymous 6w

Know you are not forced to do anything

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Anonymous 6w

Communication, both ways

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Anonymous 6w

Communication. If you're a virgin, then wait to have sex when you're both ready too. Especially if you are both virgins.

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Anonymous 6w

Play the long game and don't have sex with him for the foreseeable future, wait as long as you feel is reasonable and then some more. Relationships built on sex do not last.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Thank you that means a lot 🩷 he doesn’t seem like the type at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i really second this advice!! so important to always remind yourself to not do anything which you don’t feel comfortable doing

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 6w

i wouldn't say that if they do decide to have sex that their relationship would be built upon it. i agree that shouldn't be something that happens soon, but to sex is an important part of a relationship. they just need to understand communication and consent.

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