Anonymous #1 17h

What do you think leads people to suck this bad 😔

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Anonymous OP 17h

Not being raised right by the older men in their life who ig likely weren’t raised right either and probably online misogynistic rhetoric by people such as Andrew Tate and the likes

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Anonymous #2 17h

what they said!

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Anonymous #1 17h

I wonder what the best way to stop this cycle from continuing is :/

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Anonymous OP 17h

We need more male role models that aren’t just fictional imo. Parents also need to be involved in their kids lives and guide them towards good outlets. I feel like so many young people see so much hate from one gender online from a very small vocal minority and think “ok they all hate me and dehumanize my gender so ima do the same” and so they get pushed towards further extremes and rabbit holes rather than actually reflecting

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Anonymous #1 17h

Agreed 😔

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Anonymous #1 17h

The best things are supportive friends and family (obviously as long as they aren’t supporting hate)

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Anonymous OP 17h

men, of all kinds, need to listen, hear, and read the experiences of women from all kinds. men learn from an early age from their male figures on how to act towards others. some learn it by seeing their father act a way towards women. some learn it by being heartbroken from a woman. we all experience heartbreak, so they need to understand that this heartbreak is a part of life and not because women hate them.

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Anonymous #3 17h

Truth nuke

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Anonymous #4 16h

GREAT QUESTION. Unfortunately we get a lot of shit like that

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Anonymous #1 15h

Honestly? Most older men are misogynistic in a different way than this. This is 100% andre tate and similar men’s doing

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Anonymous #5 14h

I’m in the optimist group that believes men are actually better than they used to be minus like the recent manosphere decline. Like sexism is the (unfortunately still very prevalent) exception now, not the rule. Like society used to be sexist by default, now there are just sexist members of society

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Anonymous OP 14h

I honestly think theres a lot of mild forms of sexism that many don’t even notice bc they’re so normalized that most still perpetuate (cough, my coworkers ogling women)

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Anonymous #5 13h

Very true and unfortunate. At least people can recognize it’s wrong now even if plenty still do it

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Anonymous #6 12h

I’ve met men who think like this ToT

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Anonymous #7 8h

Cause men just keep spamming us with it it’s hard to ignore and it’s disheartening to see

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Anonymous OP 8h

Just stop engaging 🤦‍♂️ Fun fact, if you all just block them 1) you won’t see that stuff anymore and 2) these people will stop coming there because they aren’t getting the attention they want

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Anonymous #7 7h

I do block them. It’s sad how many men feel the need to come in and harass us. It’s not as simple as blocking one or two guys. I don’t engage, I was just asking about this particular attitude bc I’ve seen men I know irl express this feeling too

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