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This might sound silly. But how am I supposed to actually wake my man up when he’s sleeping just because I’m in the mood. He has said to but gosh he just looks so peaceful sleeping. That’s where we’re at in our relationship.
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Anonymous 2w

Just do it, if he asked you too

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Anonymous 2w

Just start sliding towards him and gently “twerk” on him. You can also cuddly really closely and kiss him.

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Anonymous 2w

You could just start humping him (FOR THE RECORD I AM JOKING)

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Anonymous 2w

Honestly just like sit on him or something, as a guy I wouldn’t say no to that

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Anonymous 2w

Sit in him and start kissing him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

To

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Fair enough. I just talk myself out of being in the mood if he’s sleeping. Especially because our sex lift isn’t lacking.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

It was more of a I mentioned it before and he went “you know you can wake me up right?” I’ll give it a go next time around and see.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Lolll. I’ve been joking with him all day now at this point. He said I could kick him in the shins and he’d still be thrilled

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Hey, he said it, not me🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

The man works like crazy all day and even sometimes on Sundays so idk I thought I’d let him sleep. No. He wants to me to wake him up if I feel into it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Speaking as a guy, 90% of the time we are more than willing to oblige you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

He’s just picking on me now. “Have I ever hesitated? Ever? We snuck upstairs at *his best friend*’s wedding reception because you looked at me the right way.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

See? The dude knows I’m right. Trust me, if you feel up to it, literally slap him if you have to. He’ll still do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Oh and now he’s being all cute. See this is why I’ve stayed with guy and we live together now. Sure I’ll wake up for that or if I just want to talk.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

He’d appreciate it all the same lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Sometimes I just am still learning what’s it like to be loved this way. But he never fails to make it known.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

As sounds like you guys are in a good relationship! Don’t let go of that man lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh to be loved like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I stayed with this man while he got through law school, gonna have to try real hard to scare me off now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You guys are relationship goals. If only I could talk to women

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

It really is something special. Idk how we got this far. I guess we both just try every day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Oh haha we met at a college fb game as undergrads haha. I got too excited about a touchdown and smacked his drink over lol. So then it became a thing that he’d joke about when we’d cross paths.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

So what I’m hearing is I need to start smacking drinks out of people’s hands lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Actual couple goals

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Haha you know it worked once

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w
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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

It’s the best. I’ve never had to question his motives or his here he’s at. He says what he’s thinking.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Jealous

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

It was a little intimidating at first. I was not used to that. So having someone stop dead in their sentence and just say how they feel was wild

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Have not lived it down with my friends and it’s been years. I was so frantic apologizing and using every napkin we had. Meanwhile he was 5 beers deep and couldn’t have cared less.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I need something like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I got so used to having to stay over to lure him to finally get some sleep in law school. It’s just become instinct to me to prioritize getting him to sleep. Meanwhile the man sleeps like a rock now.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You’re making me miss having a gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

6 years going and 3 of which were law school. Was a long 3 years and were not even a year since he graduated. I’m just unlearning some of the things I once had to do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That’s sweet

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Was hard but it never felt heavy. It was just what it was

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah yall are couple goals

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

We just talk. Example. We’ve quit greeting each other after work by asking how it was. It’s “Hey Babe I love you” and it’s open to talking about but doesn’t have to be.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That’s like the relationship right there

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Took a lot from what an older couple said to us at the first wedding we ever attended together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Was simple things like make dinner time just your time, you’re going to eat anyway. No put in going to bed mad, you’re probably not even mad at each other but rather the situation anyways. Take time to make the other feel special and do the little things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I usually get home an hour or two from work before he does. So like today I just got started on getting all his laundry done it’s one less thing on his plate. He does it himself but I have the time today.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I’m taking notes for when I’m locked in with someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Haha well dm is open to share our whole story or give advice. Although I don’t feel qualified for advice. But it’s what works for us

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I gotta meet someone first

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Haha honestly sometimes it’s just as simple as saying hello. Dont get too bogged down in it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Im just busy

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