Fair enough. I just talk myself out of being in the mood if he’s sleeping. Especially because our sex lift isn’t lacking.

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It was more of a I mentioned it before and he went “you know you can wake me up right?” I’ll give it a go next time around and see.

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Lolll. I’ve been joking with him all day now at this point. He said I could kick him in the shins and he’d still be thrilled

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The man works like crazy all day and even sometimes on Sundays so idk I thought I’d let him sleep. No. He wants to me to wake him up if I feel into it.

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He’s just picking on me now. “Have I ever hesitated? Ever? We snuck upstairs at *his best friend*’s wedding reception because you looked at me the right way.

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Oh and now he’s being all cute. See this is why I’ve stayed with guy and we live together now. Sure I’ll wake up for that or if I just want to talk.

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Sometimes I just am still learning what’s it like to be loved this way. But he never fails to make it known.

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Anonymous OP 28w

Oh to be loved like that

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I stayed with this man while he got through law school, gonna have to try real hard to scare me off now

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Anonymous #3 28w

It really is something special. Idk how we got this far. I guess we both just try every day.

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Oh haha we met at a college fb game as undergrads haha. I got too excited about a touchdown and smacked his drink over lol. So then it became a thing that he’d joke about when we’d cross paths.

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Anonymous OP 28w

Actual couple goals

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Haha you know it worked once

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Anonymous #3 28w

It’s the best. I’ve never had to question his motives or his here he’s at. He says what he’s thinking.

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Anonymous OP 28w

Jealous

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Anonymous #3 28w

It was a little intimidating at first. I was not used to that. So having someone stop dead in their sentence and just say how they feel was wild

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Have not lived it down with my friends and it’s been years. I was so frantic apologizing and using every napkin we had. Meanwhile he was 5 beers deep and couldn’t have cared less.

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Anonymous OP 28w

I need something like that

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Anonymous #3 28w

I got so used to having to stay over to lure him to finally get some sleep in law school. It’s just become instinct to me to prioritize getting him to sleep. Meanwhile the man sleeps like a rock now.

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Anonymous OP 28w

You’re making me miss having a gf

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Anonymous #3 28w

6 years going and 3 of which were law school. Was a long 3 years and were not even a year since he graduated. I’m just unlearning some of the things I once had to do

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Anonymous OP 28w

That’s sweet

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Anonymous #3 28w

Was hard but it never felt heavy. It was just what it was

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Anonymous OP 28w

Yeah yall are couple goals

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Anonymous #3 28w

We just talk. Example. We’ve quit greeting each other after work by asking how it was. It’s “Hey Babe I love you” and it’s open to talking about but doesn’t have to be.

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Anonymous OP 28w

That’s like the relationship right there

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Anonymous #3 28w

Took a lot from what an older couple said to us at the first wedding we ever attended together.

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Anonymous #3 28w

Was simple things like make dinner time just your time, you’re going to eat anyway. No put in going to bed mad, you’re probably not even mad at each other but rather the situation anyways. Take time to make the other feel special and do the little things.

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Anonymous #3 28w

I usually get home an hour or two from work before he does. So like today I just got started on getting all his laundry done it’s one less thing on his plate. He does it himself but I have the time today.

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Anonymous OP 28w

I’m taking notes for when I’m locked in with someone

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Anonymous #3 28w

Haha well dm is open to share our whole story or give advice. Although I don’t feel qualified for advice. But it’s what works for us

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Anonymous OP 28w

I gotta meet someone first

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Anonymous #3 28w

Haha honestly sometimes it’s just as simple as saying hello. Dont get too bogged down in it

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Anonymous OP 28w

Im just busy

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