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Ask Men 6d
What’s the men’s take? Like actually, not just “tell him”
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Ask Women 6d
What should I do, y’all? I can feel my breath speed up from panic when I think about him not being in my life. We hang out everyday and when we don’t, my day is literally so bland. Only great part is when we text or call. I’m so fucked, y’all, holy shit.
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Anonymous 6d

I’ve had this sort of crush before, and just “tell him” is still the best advice

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Anonymous 6d

If you don’t want us to say you should tell him, you’re asking us to lie to you.

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Anonymous 6d

Why “not just tell him”? It’s that simple. Just tell him.

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Anonymous 4d

Tell him, but emphasize you value your friendship and don’t want to lose that if he doesn’t feel the same way.

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Anonymous 6d

Break up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

We’re not dating…? At least be hateful properly😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> sea_taco 6d

Because I’m very afraid of losing him, and he might just not like me like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Cuz I might lose him if I do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

My next best advice then is to get someone you both know to ask him what he thinks about you

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