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Men Only: Have you ever personally experienced (/are you a survivor of) sexual assault/battery or stalking?
#poll
Yes, sexual assault/battery
Yes, stalking
Yes, both
No, neither
I am a woman/NB
288 votes
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Anonymous 17h

unfortunately twice

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Anonymous 15h

Oh if you include battery… I couldn’t even count how many times something like that has happened to me.

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Anonymous 17h

I have experienced sexual harassment more than once but never direct sexual assault

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

believe me it’s the worst feeling you can feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

I absolutely believe you, and I’m so sorry it happened to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

first time was definitely worse than the second but i think that’s up to interpretation but it’s also the reason i don’t go to bars anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Was it by a man or a woman if you don’t mind me asking

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Anonymous replying to -> census 16h

both times women, put rufinol and viagra in my drinks, first was once and i got dragged but i only remember bits and pieces, second time was like a friend group of 3 and i got carried instead, getting dragged still leaves a little bit of trauma im ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

Oh Jesus. That sounds like a nightmare. I’m so sorry they did that to you. How have you been processing it?

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Anonymous replying to -> census 15h

it’s been like 5 years since then, i just avoid going to bars or clubs but other than that like all good, nothing good comes to it when i ponder it so best just to forget it

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