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As a confused girl friend (not girlfriend), how do you differentiate doing things as friends vs things that have a romantic "more than friends" tone? He's sending mixed signals but maybe it's bc we're so close ? Idk guys, enlighten me.
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Anonymous 10w

Have you established a boundary? Did he already try and you friendzoned him? Do you often hang out 1 on 1 or in groups? Very high chance he’s playing a long game

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Anonymous 10w

So is he trying to move this to fwb’s or more - assuming you’ve been only friends atm

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Anonymous 10w

Has he been in other relationships before

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Anonymous 10w

I’d think you’d catch a possessive vibe ( in a good way) if he was trying to level it up, just don’t do the fwb because that usually ends bad

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Anonymous 10w

Are you interested in being “more than friends” with him?

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 10w

Honestly idk, he calls me twin a lot, wants to hang out just us, wants to grab food a lot. I'm just confused atp

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 10w

Also wants to swap shirts, tells me I smell good etc...

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Anonymous replying to -> pleasure.pirate 10w

Ya

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Not that I'm aware of

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

As for hanging out, a little of both

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

You can bait him into making a move by entertaining his mixed signals. Then you can decide if you want something with him or not. But if you don’t you need to make it very clear that you wouldn’t want anything with him

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