Anonymous #1 8w

My question is if a girl is like supermodel level pretty would she make a guy who only wants hookups want a relationship with her

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Anonymous OP 8w

Maybe, we see hot celebs get cheated on all the time. Obviously if you’re a supermodel you can get in a relationship with almost anyone, but that doesn’t make it easier to build a lasting relationship or get a husband

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Anonymous #1 8w

So it is true, if a girl is pretty enough she could make a guy want to commit to her regardless of what he’s looking for

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Anonymous OP 8w

Being like top 0.1% on any quality will make dating easier in some respects but we can’t all be perfect

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Anonymous #1 8w

I’m asking because at this point I’m considering plastic surgery as a way to increase my chances of a relationship. So far, the only thing men have pursued me for is a hookup, and it makes me feel like I’m not attractive enough for commitment

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Anonymous OP 8w

Wait til you’re like 28 to decide. Even if you want children in the future you have a lot of time to try dating and see what works and what doesn’t. I’m also not sure people with plastic surgery are more likely to have happy relationships

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Anonymous OP 8w

Girl dont do that Look at hot rich hollywood women getting cheated on, looks are not everything. And what kind of surgery are you gonna have? Massive boobs? Massive ass? You’ll get a boyfriend that’s probably sex driven and that relationship wont last long. Plus your health will pay the price. My advice is wait for a nice guy thats not rushing for sex, and dont have sex until you’re official, that way losers wont be using you for a hookup.

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Anonymous #4 8w

She wants a nose job I think

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Anonymous #1 8w

Mm I see Yeah I dont think that’s going to give her a relationship, especially if she keeps having sex with the guys before their official.

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Anonymous #4 8w

I’m a virgin because I don’t have sex with those guys without a relationship

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Anonymous OP 8w

Then dont get surgery for this my love, at least not yet. If guys are approaching you then you’re already attractive

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Anonymous #4 8w

They’re not pursuing though is the issue. They don’t want to get to know me or want a commitment from me. And when they find out I can’t give them sex they move on to the next

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Anonymous OP 8w

Then I doubt one surgery will change that.

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Anonymous #4 8w

Like some said, they might view me as pretty enough for a relationship then and not a hookup

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Anonymous OP 8w

Its a gamble Most guys are lustful, they ask you out for sex, you say no, they move on. And it might be like 10guys before you meet someone that wants a relationship. Beautiful women get cheated one.

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Anonymous #4 8w

OP might not be aware that as a woman she has way more options than she may realize. When she decides to cut things off with a man who is only driven by lust, that’s her exercising power and choosing something better for herself. it doesn’t say anything about whether she’s good enough for a relationship, but rather whether those men are ready for a relationship

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Anonymous #1 8w

I typically am not the one to cut things off. They guys do after I mention I want a relationship and not something causal. Then I get the “I’m not ready for a relationship” and things end. I never feel like I have much power during that conversation

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Anonymous OP 8w

Well then this shows that they are not ready to meet your expectations, they’re filtering themselves out which is a good thing. You’re actually doing well. Some really attractive girls get dragged along in months long situationships because they cannot ask for a relationship

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Anonymous #1 8w

But if I was really attractive to them, wouldn’t they be willing to commit to me?

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Anonymous OP 8w

Nope Just because you’re insanely beautiful doesn’t mean a man wont cheat and vice versa

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Anonymous #4 8w

No I mean wouldn’t he want a relationship in the first place if I was insanely attractive?

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Anonymous #6 8w

It’s more personality that would determine a hookup for most guys too I think

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Anonymous OP 8w

Its just a maybe Man you do whatever you want to do because you’re clearly not hearing us. If you do any kind of surgery I pray that a nice guy conveniently comes your way. Otherwise you’re gonna understand the hard way what we’re telling you.

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Anonymous #4 8w

I mean there’s no guys coming my way rn. That’s why I’m upset and struggling.

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Anonymous OP 8w

They are coming your way. Just not compatible ones. And its okay to be upset and struggling but making a body altering decision over it isn’t worth it.

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