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why do men have such internalized homophobia? they know it’s okay be be gay right? top a femboy or whatever you want you won’t be crucified…
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Anonymous 14w

Bc it’s gay

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Anonymous 14w

yeah it’s annoying when they r like “gay is okay jus dont flirt with me” ? but its like why are you assuming cuz they gay they auto want u

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Anonymous 14w

It’s always a head scratcher hearing a mf use “gay” as a synonym for “traditionally not masculine” and with a genuinely (and I mean GENUINELY) disgusted tone… shit I prolly just clocked half the mfs here.

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Anonymous 14w

You understand how contrary this is to most of the beliefs in the lgbt community right? The whole message is love and acceptance for all sexualities yet you are not accepting men who just want to be straight and date only women, such hypocrisy

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Anonymous 14w

What if I wanted to be crucified

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Anonymous 14w

My guess is that a lot of guy to guy relationships say a lot of "gay" things to each other, primarily to boost their confidence imo. So when someone is actually gay, it changes the dynamic. Personally, I think in the vast majority of cases men should strive to embrace masculinity so being a femboy is reductive imo and prolly won't lead to life long happiness.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

They say “Don’t flirt with me” but like bitch i have standards, I’m gay not stupid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

That’s actually funny bc the only times gay people have talked to me was bc they wanted me. It’s happened st least twice. It does give you a confidence boost tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Oh damn 💀I’m sorry but also yay?

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