Anonymous #1 1d

I was gonna wait until further in the summer to do it if I go through with it

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Anonymous #2 1d

The real answer is if she wanted to she would’ve then, that’s just an excuse to not say no (because who wants to hurt someone? They can be good and attractive but just not what you specifically are looking for, so it seems kinder when you have no valid reason). At the time I just didn’t realize I’d be contacted when that later happened

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Anonymous #2 1d

Personally I meant it when I said it. I mean I didn’t like the person I said it too but even if I did like them my stance would still be the same but I think I would probably add that I like them too in that scenario

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Anonymous #3 1d

WAIT I FORGOT THIS WAS ASK MEN SORRY IM A GIRL

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Anonymous #3 1d

But to be fair adding that you like them back is a different scenario

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Anonymous #3 1d

Oh oops I am also a girl 😭 but OP is a guy asking about a girl so our input still makes sense I think?

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Anonymous #2 1d

Ya that’s y I’m confused bc in OPs scenario she said he’d be perfect for any girl and I personally wouldn’t rlly add anything if I didn’t like him but then she didn’t say he’s perfect for ME so I’m like maybe she’s being nice I can’t tell

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Anonymous #3 1d

For any girl does not include her unfortunately, she just didn’t want to tell him she isn’t interested. I just think she never expected him to want to follow up with her after grad (I didn’t expect a follow up either, I panicked lol). Rejecting someone is hard and this is a soft way of doing it without doing it and feeling too awful

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Anonymous #2 1d

Ya usually guys always ask ur type before they ask u out if u guys r friends before so my go to strategy is to give requirements that def don’t fit them to subtlety tell them😭

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Anonymous #3 1d

Oh this was a stranger (cold approach) so I definitely couldn’t do that. Not sure about OPs situation ofc

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Anonymous #2 1d

Damn how do he even find u again😭

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Anonymous #2 1d

For cold approach they usually stop u and start of with a complement my natural instinct for everyone is just to say thank you and awkwardly look away bc I’m an awkward person and they just naturally walk away with no question after

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Anonymous #3 1d

My number I gave it but rejected the approach right away I just panicked I don’t know 😵‍💫 and flattered to be fair so I was extra anxious

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Anonymous #3 1d

Usually that’s what happens but sometimes they ask for a number and while I reject Instagram/snapchat/etc I don’t care about my phone number (easily found online anyway) and I feel rude declining all forms of communication (I just decline to go out from the privacy of my home)

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Anonymous #2 1d

No I get that it’s so hard to say no when they are being so nice bc then ur like u don’t want to hurt their feelings or confidence

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Anonymous #3 1d

I’ve known her since we were 15 and she’s one of those who thinks her grades will be affected if she’s with someone also we’ve hung out one on one and in group settings and I’ve gotten mixed messages

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Anonymous #4 9h

I’m really not if you knew me you’d know I ain’t shit

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