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Ask Men 5d

so we’re consistently talking and he hasn’t asked to hook up or do anything of that sort. does that mean he maybe wants something more serious?

Anonymous 5d

Yeah I’d take that as a good sign but also depends on how long you’ve been talking

Anonymous 4d

Ask him, or at least hint it because like you said you didn’t reciprocate so how could he know?!

Anonymous

#1 5d

welp only 3 days but on the first day we met he spent the night at my place and he was kinda a little close to me and had his hand on my thigh and when i didn’t reciprocate he stopped

Anonymous

OP 5d

Hey respecting boundaries is automatically a good sign

Anonymous

#2 5d

ikkk and ngl i’m hoping he wants something more serious but i feel like it’s too early to ask 💔

Anonymous

OP 5d

Just give it some time and read it out

Anonymous

#3 3d

ok i asked him and he said “i mean you’re cool but i genuinely barely know you as of now” how am i supposed to interpret that? genuinely asking from a man’s perspective

Anonymous

OP 3d

I would interpret it as, this seems positive but commitment this early seems unlikely. For a good chunk of people, verbal commitment is meaningful for lack of a better term. It’s going in the right direction if he says he likes you but a lot of people want to get to know someone before making things official.

Anonymous

#4 2d

yeah i see how this could be a good sign. ig i’ve just been surrounded by guys who only wanna hook up and love bomb so i forgot what a healthy progression to a relationship looks like? i hope im making sense rn

Anonymous

OP 2d

You are. And it is a valid concern. I would say just give it some time.