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How direct do I have to be in order to *just* hook up with a guy? No further contact Side note: would he be offended to get “treated like a piece of meat”?
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Anonymous 3w

just want to slide in here and add, it’s also cool to ask directly when he got tested last. if he’s weird or pissy about it or worse has never been tested please don’t do it.

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Anonymous 3w

No he won’t be offended. He IS a piece of meat; that’s not even a variable, the only question of whether he’s a piece of meat who wants to fuck you. And usually the answer to that is “yes” but you can make sure by just asking him. As far as how direct to be, the answer is, yes, that direct. “Do you want to fuck me?” , just like that. Guys love honesty and clarity. Yes or no, if you ask a straight question you’ll get your straight answer for sure.

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Anonymous 3w

Extremely direct. Like straight up: “hey i just want to hook up and never speak again. Are you good with that?”

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Anonymous 3w

Only women get offended by that

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Anonymous 3w

Ew

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Anonymous 3w

We’re all treated like pieces of meat no matter what the relationship status is tbh

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Anonymous 3w

No idea, some men are dogs and would move heaven and earth just to get laid and some have a micron of self respect and would get offended. Even if he is the former theres a non-zero chance he will be catch feels or smth and become the latter

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

That was def the plan

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

That’s why I’m asking

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