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Do guys think it’s weird if a girl has had no romantic or sexual experiences by the age of 19 ?
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Anonymous 7w

No

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Anonymous 7w

bro what's with guys being assholes here? I think you it's fine. You just need to know what you want

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Anonymous 7w

No, not at all. And honestly, if that’s a red flag or weird to someone, they’re weird af. 19 is hardly even an adult. I mean legally you are, but once you turn 23 you’ll realize how different you are compared to when you were 19.

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Anonymous 7w

Nah, who tf cares that’s their own business

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Anonymous 7w

Unusual but not necessarily weird

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Anonymous 7w

I don’t personally care either way and most guys don’t.

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Anonymous 7w

Only 46% of Gen Z date in highschool so it’s normal

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Anonymous 7w

No

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Anonymous 7w

No weird at all and I’d say it’s healthy. I pray you continue to avoid all the horrible men out there and find the right one.

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Anonymous 7w

I don’t think so but guys may view me differently

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Anonymous 7w

I’ve never been in a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

At this point I don’t even know if it’s because of me having standards or men just not wanting me

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Anonymous 7w

You do realize these aren’t mutually exclusive things right? She could’ve never been in a relationship for personal reasons…..you men need to learn and accept already that women are always going to be single because YOU are not wanted. Not her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Why would you want to date someone who doesn’t want you or who you don’t want? Just wait for the right person. A lot of people get hurt by trying to rush things with the wrong people. Nothing wrong with doing things your way and going at your own pace

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

I can confirm. I rushed with the wrong person in high school, and it was a really toxic relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> beaver_19 7w

Same. Even if you had no experience at 23 I wouldn’t care.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

23 is also still young and my brain DEFINITELY isn’t fully developed yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

I second this! Even if she had no experience at 45!

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Anonymous 7w

I mean somebody can’t control the way they look, and if that’s really all that matters to other people, that says a lot about them.

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Anonymous 7w

Just because I have no experience does that immediately make people assume I’m unattractive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Sweetheart ive been in 7 relationships with gals and im 18, im a flirt and a loverboy. My friend though hasnt had a single one. Shes a sweet as pumkin pie and I would die for her. Aint nothing wrong with her or you, a flower needs time to grow

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 7w

I’ve been told I’m kind and pretty by guys but for some reason I can’t turn that into a relationship

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Anonymous 7w

You asked if she’d never had experience because of personal reasons - OR - because she’s never been in a relationship. Again, these don’t have to be different. By separating the two, you’re implying that she’d never been in a relationship for reasons out of her control rather than her just not wanting to be in one

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

The whole “brain isn’t developed until 25” is a myth based on pseudoscience.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

But other than that I agree with your main comment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Not even that unusual

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