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Do guys think it’s weird if a girl has had no romantic or sexual experiences by the age of 19 ?
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Anonymous 1d

No

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Anonymous 1d

bro what's with guys being assholes here? I think you it's fine. You just need to know what you want

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Anonymous 15h

Nah, who tf cares that’s their own business

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Anonymous 1d

No, not at all. And honestly, if that’s a red flag or weird to someone, they’re weird af. 19 is hardly even an adult. I mean legally you are, but once you turn 23 you’ll realize how different you are compared to when you were 19.

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Anonymous 1d

Unusual but not necessarily weird

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Anonymous 21h

I don’t personally care either way and most guys don’t.

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Anonymous 11h

No

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Anonymous 7h

Only 46% of Gen Z date in highschool so it’s normal

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Anonymous 1d

Are u ugly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I don’t think so but guys may view me differently

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’m just wondering in general, do you have no experience for personal reasons.. or because you’ve never been in relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I’ve never been in a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yikes… ya you might be cooked unless you find a guy who gets no attention

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

At this point I don’t even know if it’s because of me having standards or men just not wanting me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

You do realize these aren’t mutually exclusive things right? She could’ve never been in a relationship for personal reasons…..you men need to learn and accept already that women are always going to be single because YOU are not wanted. Not her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Why would you want to date someone who doesn’t want you or who you don’t want? Just wait for the right person. A lot of people get hurt by trying to rush things with the wrong people. Nothing wrong with doing things your way and going at your own pace

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

I can confirm. I rushed with the wrong person in high school, and it was a really toxic relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> beaver_19 21h

Same. Even if you had no experience at 23 I wouldn’t care.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 21h

23 is also still young and my brain DEFINITELY isn’t fully developed yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

I second this! Even if she had no experience at 45!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20h

that’s why I asked if it was because of personal reasons dumbass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20h

Mad because I’m the only honest one here, she asked for the truth not for someone to console her💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

I mean somebody can’t control the way they look, and if that’s really all that matters to other people, that says a lot about them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Just because I have no experience does that immediately make people assume I’m unattractive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

No not necessarily it’s jus normally by that age you’ve gotten enough attention to at least have some experience unless it’s a personal choice to shut down every guy if you get what I’m saying. And I don’t mean to say this to upset you there’s someone for everyone at some point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Everyone’s on different timelines it’s okay if your “behind” as long as your happy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Sweetheart ive been in 7 relationships with gals and im 18, im a flirt and a loverboy. My friend though hasnt had a single one. Shes a sweet as pumkin pie and I would die for her. Aint nothing wrong with her or you, a flower needs time to grow

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 18h

I’ve been told I’m kind and pretty by guys but for some reason I can’t turn that into a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

You asked if she’d never had experience because of personal reasons - OR - because she’s never been in a relationship. Again, these don’t have to be different. By separating the two, you’re implying that she’d never been in a relationship for reasons out of her control rather than her just not wanting to be in one

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