Anonymous OP 11h

Maybe your going to the wrong scene. If u only talk to guys at clubs your they probably just wanna hu yk

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Anonymous #3 8h

Not sure how much that would help considering guys do say they find me attractive they just never commit😭

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Anonymous #1 8h

I mainly use hinge, guys irl don’t approach me tbh

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Anonymous OP 8h

Online is full of horn balls too

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Anonymous #4 8h

I know but when nobody except weird creepy men approach me irl I don’t rlly have a choice but to date online if I want to have at least some options 😭

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Anonymous OP 8h

Or you could approach too. There is a choice

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Anonymous #4 8h

those are the guys she wants tho, why would she go anywhere else?

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Anonymous OP 8h

sounds like you’re looking for guys that are out of your relationship league

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Anonymous #3 8h

Mind u I haven’t been to a frat party in 2 years & I go to a bar maybe 3-4 times a year but go off yea I totally only meet guys there😭💀

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Anonymous #3 8h

The only ex I had, everyone actually told me I was the one who was above his league after we broke up. He lowkey knew it too so he’d show me off like a shiny trophy to everyone 🤦🏾‍♀️ naively at the time I was flattered by that lol

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Anonymous #4 8h

It is a choice. I’d rather die than approach a man first tho so there’s that lmaoooo

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Anonymous OP 8h

this proves my point. the only relationship you’ve been in was with a guy less attractive than the ones you’re currently going for. he was in your relationship league, the guys you’re going for now aren’t.

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Anonymous OP 8h

beggars can’t be choosers.

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Anonymous #3 8h

I’m not even dating rn bc that breakup was recent so I’m not going for anyone😭I notice you keep making assumptions hoping one will stick lol. And again, everyone & even him said I was way outta his league but go off

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Anonymous #3 8h

I want a bf, but not that bad to approach first. The men that approach me first, don’t even ending up liking me fr, so I’d rather not approach first🤷🏽‍♀️I feel like if I have to do that then I’m chasing him down lol

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Anonymous OP 8h

how exactly was i supposed to know your breakup was recent? and you’re the one asking how to get a bf, it’s not unreasonable to assume that you’ve been trying.

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Anonymous OP 8h

then quit begging.

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Anonymous #3 8h

where am I begging?😭 I hope u not this slow and just trolling ngl

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Anonymous OP 8h

if you wanted to, you would. right?

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